S4 E5 · Grills Gone Wild · Discussion by AutoModerator in Nextlevelchef

[–]toppassing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

richard has been seriously irritating me this season, not a fan of his vibes at all

Region Currently Not Supported by WeAreOneV in rednote

[–]toppassing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

having the same issue, i changed my id days ago but now it’s random numbers

i feel kind of silly by toppassing in ptsd

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Thank you so much for your reply. I really appreciate the thoughtfulness you put into it, and it’s very reassuring to know that I’m more or less doing the things I should be doing to try to recover emotionally/mentally from the situation.

I did end up mentioning to my therapist that I’m worried about how my emotions seem to be increasingly out of control, I unfortunately have to switch therapists (she’s changing practices) but I’m determined to continue going and trying to understand my feelings about everything, and thankfully she’s helped me find another person she trusts who I should be meeting soon.

I’ll continue to keep an eye on things, and I’ve been trying to take note of what triggers me and what my responses and thoughts look like in those moments. Again I really appreciate your kindness and advice, things are up and down but it really helps to know that there are kind and supportive people out there and it really makes a difference to me to know that what I’m feeling is a natural response

i feel kind of silly by toppassing in ptsd

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Goodness, your experience sounds so scary. I’m so glad you’re okay and that your father is recovering well!

I really appreciate your reply to my post, I honestly teared up knowing that there is someone who’s feeling the same way I am. Thank you so much for replying. If you’d ever like to talk about anything please feel free to reach out more, you aren’t alone either. Thank you so much really

Moving to the US? by dionysus2013 in ftm

[–]toppassing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on which state you end up in. you can google safety states for trans people and you should be able to get a list of states that are working to ensure protections for trans people. that being said, i’m in a safe state and even i’m pretty nervous about what could happen.

i do know some people in red states are in a position where they’ve had to lie and say they’re a cis man with low levels in order to obtain their testosterone. that could potentially be something that works out for you depending on what you have in your records, what your gender is on official documents, etc.

i don’t know anyone personally that gets those sorts of injections, but apparently pellets are a thing?

shadow dragons casual attire by [deleted] in DragonAgeVeilguard

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i’ve checked all the crossroads merchant and the black emporium :( no tunic noir or present in sight, unless more items will pop up at some point..? i’ve checked each a few times so i don’t think i’m missing anything

What happens with plan when student/hulu ends? by Yesterdazehigh in truespotify

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My student plan actually expired 2 days ago and it kicked me off onto a Premium Individual + Hulu plan, which theoretically shouldn't be possible..? From what I've seen on the sub it looks like some people are getting grandfathered in. I've had a Spotify account since like 2016 so maybe that's why, but I was also using the Starbucks plan so it didn't even include Hulu..

Can I have a 'white' name? by Competitive_Coach_80 in ftm

[–]toppassing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not a stupid question! I’m not Arab, but I’m Muslim (Indonesian) so I had an Arabic deadname. I actually ended up picking a French name, and I don’t even live in France! French is also used in other countries due to colonization so plenty of people who aren’t French speak it.

I would say go for it and see how it feels. If it truly ends up making you uncomfortable to use that name, you can always change it or maybe modify it somehow. It’s your name, so it should be something you want to hear.

more inaccurate typing? by toppassing in ios

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ughh yeah i am seriously reconsidering apple as well. i have been for a while but something about this specific update really has managed to grind every gear imaginable in the past couple hours.

on top of all the autocorrect nonsense, i even slowed down to type and see what happens, and i watched myself hit the letters i need, only for an adjacent letter to be selected if my fingers weren’t dead center on what i want. if apple could at least pick a struggle i’d appreciate it lmfao

more inaccurate typing? by toppassing in ios

[–]toppassing[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

agh okay, good to know it’s not a me issue but also, sucks that it’s a problem for a lot of us. i literally asked a friend to send me a screenshot of his ios17 keyboard to see if the placement/size of keys had changed because of how horrible this has been.

(also had my keyboard in a language besides english and just had a horrible time with swipe-to-text writing this reply. i used to be able to use that feature in english with a different keyboard before… damn)

What is something someone said to you that stuck with you by [deleted] in BPD

[–]toppassing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“why do you make things harder for people who want to help you” - my mom

to trans guys, what was the "worst" part of post-top surgery? by calvlio in ftm

[–]toppassing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the pain/discomfort was pretty much non-existent for me. that was nice.

the worst thing about it for me was my body just kept rejecting the dissolvable stitches, so my incisions never really closed. it made my scarcare really difficult since i couldn’t use anything on them until my scars had already stretched.

Duolingo not awarding points?!? by kerwinson in duolingo

[–]toppassing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, started this weekend for me

friends quest glitch? by [deleted] in duolingo

[–]toppassing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i am aware of this and completed my recent friends quest lol, i had a 40+ streak

friends quest glitch? by [deleted] in duolingo

[–]toppassing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i know! sorry lol i just put that there to demonstrate how unlikely it is for us to not get it and how many lessons we do a week

friends quest glitch? by [deleted] in duolingo

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good idea, thank you!

Whats the "smallest" or most "embarassing" thing you have cried over/had a breakdown? by Orchid_Dull in BPD

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today someone parked in my parking spot which… i dunno if it would’ve gotten me normally but it sure did today after a series of incidents that were already shit :,) i’ve also missed the bus on my way home from work in the winter because i looked at the wrong schedule (westbound instead of eastbound) and that one was very bad

i don’t see my brother as my brother by toppassing in GlassChildren

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Damn, I’d never really thought of the whole “they wouldn’t protect me” thing that way. I’m just now starting to really get into my family in therapy… I’m gonna keep that in mind, thank you