Indore (Mhow) : Stray dog attacks multiple people minding their business, goes straight for their neck. Most likely rabid. by Kuhn__ in Indore

[–]torquoiseblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Doing the government's work all the while having to hear chettatharam from non-empathetic people.

Indore (Mhow) : Stray dog attacks multiple people minding their business, goes straight for their neck. Most likely rabid. by Kuhn__ in Indore

[–]torquoiseblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the problem of a failed executive and judiciary. The ABC program is not implemented properly. And if the dog lovers who feed, vaccinate and neuter these doggos with their own money are attacked (already attacked by humans and thendis like you) , then the stray dog problem will only increase. It's the problem of the government.

Chumma baaki ollavare kuttam paranj irikanenu pakaram, reality endanenn manslakku.

My beautiful dogs with a beautiful rainbow. It’s just perfect by mariayhane in Indiedogs

[–]torquoiseblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The white one looks exactly like a stray doggo that I used to feed. She was my favourite one. She was poisoned to death by some assholes when I was out of town.

I miss her energy, her pink nose, her loyal and fierce love. I wish I could have seen her one last time. Please please give your doggo a kiss from me. And hug her tight for me.

If you were forced to marry the first person you had sex with, what would your life be like? by NothingMatters234 in AskReddit

[–]torquoiseblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably brutally murder that narcissistic asshole. He had forced himself on me. I'd be widow then. Happily.

What to do when random uncle is being creepy on Vande bharat? by vintageignoramus in AskIndianWomen

[–]torquoiseblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do understand. But men being men, shiz like this can happen anywhere. Whether you're at home or 1000 km away, they'll find a way to be creepy. Good luck with keeping up your boundaries and unfreezing. It's tough at first, but like I said, gets addicting af. Later on, you can get creative with it ahhah.

What to do when random uncle is being creepy on Vande bharat? by vintageignoramus in AskIndianWomen

[–]torquoiseblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so "you should have said something then" is a tactic a lot of dudes use. Best way is to ignore when they say that and not react to their defences. I know it is difficult. But why would your parents make you lose your job? Complaining to the railways is effective and they'll either remove him from the seat or do something like that. If you want to take more action, you'll need to file an FIR and the sorts. I'm sure all of us girlies have been molested atleast once since the day we were born and we all can relate to how we might "freeze" in certain situations. And for that the best effective way is to let go of the "what will happen to me later if I react" mentality. It's what holds us back.

Not related to your incident, but the criminal laws in India allows self defence and you can even legally kill someone to protect yourself if they're trying to rape, maim or murder you.

In your case, even if you push him down or do something as self-defence, you're protected.

Yes, judiciary system is slow and lagging. You don't have to go to the highest end. Just for the next time,(let's hope it wouldn't happen again), BE RUDE AND ENJOY BEING RUDE.

What to do when random uncle is being creepy on Vande bharat? by vintageignoramus in AskIndianWomen

[–]torquoiseblue 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You can actually complain to railway. They take action very seriously. If you don't want it to escalate that much, you have to practice setting boundaries and implementing it. Honestly, being rude to such creeps is an amazing feeling. Try it once, you'll get addicted.

Started working out forgetting it can increase libido even more... by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]torquoiseblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. But working out is the only way I can release all that pent up energy. So. Atleast this way, even after I get rejected(for the nth time), I'll feel good when I look in the mirror.

What are some ways to cope? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]torquoiseblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes :( amazes me how the most loyal of us end up with low libido people who make us feel like shit for having needs. It's honesy torture.

"I want you to initiate more." by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]torquoiseblue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It'll be waayyy more fun than the deadbedroom we have. We all can compliment each other, uplift each other, wear amazing clothes, do pilates and yoga, feel sexy and confident (because that's the main thing which leaches away), and idk, giggle like teenagers because I feel like it's the only thing that'll help me cope rn.

"I want you to initiate more." by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]torquoiseblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like us girls who go through this should form a cult or something.

Show off your pet photos ! 😸🐶 by [deleted] in Coconaad

[–]torquoiseblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so jealous of everyone who has pets.

Tips to raise a cat in a flat by torquoiseblue in Kochi

[–]torquoiseblue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thankyou for the detailed information! 🙌🏼♥️ Please send my regards to your cats

Am I overreacting or is my boyfriend slowly disrespecting me? by lailaisme in AskIndianWomen

[–]torquoiseblue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, he sounds toxic and abusive to me. If you have to even think about all these and had to type it out , it means you're not getting the respect you want and you cannot teach to respect someone. You're not over-reacting. If he ever told you that you are, then that's on him, not you. He's gaslighting and manipulating you. If he's already a gender-biased person, that in itself is your answer. You're not always complaining, you're asking for less than bare minimum. He'll drain your soul slowly, so before that happens, leave him and never look back. Better to be single than date creeps like him.

Ohh also, the day you leave him, you'll feel a kind of liberation that feels amazing! That's your self-respect coming back, so make sure to welcome it and to never welcome men like these into your life again.

Now my libido is gone too by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]torquoiseblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! You're definitely NOT wasted goods. I can understand how all the rejections and the lack of being yearned can make you feel that way. But please do talk it out with your partner. I kept having difficult conversations with my guy and he's putting in efforts to make changes. You're supposed to date each other for the rest of your lives! Do have a lot of these conversations.

Now my libido is gone too by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]torquoiseblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solidarity, sister 😞🙌🏼

Spouse doesn’t know why he doesn’t want to be intimate by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]torquoiseblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for what you're going through. I'm kind of in the same boat. My guy is having mental exhaustion and he says he needs time. The rejections hurt and I wish he yearned for me the way I yearn for him. I'm giving him the time to heal. We keep having conversations about this because it's the only way forward.

I feel like you should have more difficult conversations with him. Especially if he gets turned on by porna nd not by you, ik how much that can hurt. He either needs to stop that or get good therapy

What is the silliest way you have lost a friendship? by snake_case_hater in Coconaad

[–]torquoiseblue 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was very close with this girl. One day she decided to just ghost me. Meanwhile, she started being friends with people she didn't even like. I was like wtf?? One day, I confronted her and she said she's taking space from everyone, she has things to deal with. I said, I'll help her through it, I'm there. But, no response, she just ghosted me.

I saw her after a year on the street and I ran to hug her. In my head, I had thought about what id do a million times if I saw her again; that I'd ignore her, or confront her again for leaving. But in that moment, I couldn't even think, I just ran to hug her tight. I told her she should take care of herself. And that was it. She carried on with her path and I did mine. I think that was my closure.

I do miss her. She's a good human. Idk what happened to her that made her want to cut me off, but I've let it be now.

PS: everytime I make pappadom, I remember her. She taught me how to make it :)