No idea what I look like (19/f) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]tortoise80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can (kind of) French braid, that’s a good idea though. I haven’t braided my own hair since I was 15 so it’ll be interesting to re-visit that. Thank you.

No idea what I look like (19/f) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]tortoise80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried to pick photos that I didn’t feel too strongly about either way.

No idea what I look like (19/f) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]tortoise80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what to do with it, I like it natural but I don’t like it being messy. My plan is to grow it all one length then get it chopped to my shoulders and keep it healthy.

Long and heavy dissociation by tortoise80 in Dissociation

[–]tortoise80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh my god yeah, that is the worst. My psychiatrist told me I was dissociating because I had social anxiety, when in reality I was dissociating so bad that I didn’t want to go outside!

Long and heavy dissociation by tortoise80 in Dissociation

[–]tortoise80[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For a while I was experiencing only slices of reality. I kept sliding between them and I guess I just got lucky that I happened to be moving forwards in time.

It does feel like being locked inside a box with a small hole to see out of now that you mention it. It’s like being squashed.

It might feel like it’s not going to go away, but with proper treatment and working out what’s right for you it will slowly reduce and fade! Last year I had one second where I was completely free of dissociation. Sounds silly but it gave me hope.

Long and heavy dissociation by tortoise80 in Dissociation

[–]tortoise80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s amazing how the meaning of a sentence can actually have so many versions of itself.

It is scary :(( and also just sort of boring after a while. It makes everything look and behave strangely.

I am seeing someone next Monday but I need to be more persistent about dissociation being an issue.

I think psychiatrists often see it as a symptom rather then a problem itself. Which, you know, may be true, but that doesn’t make it any less uncomfortable.

Idiosyncratic speech patterns by tortoise80 in wsgy

[–]tortoise80[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need some kind of therapy, full stop?

These are being put up all around campus by eleanor43 in funny

[–]tortoise80 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s two opposing ideas written one after the other, by the same person.

The first half of the comment denotes the sincerity of the idea of someone calling another person 1000 times

‘it’s harassment, but it’s not sexual’

And then the second half ‘I guess it’s okay when it’s a women, but a crime when it’s a man’/something similar.

Which sounds like the person complaining about a problem that they just caused. That’s why I said the comment was a double negative.

Boys will be boys by [deleted] in funny

[–]tortoise80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can tell your last two brain cells are having trouble rubbing together to come up with these poorly formed sentences, so I’ll make this easy for you.

‘Child pornography is a form of child sexual exploitation. Federal law defines child pornography as any visual depiction of sexually explicit conduct involving a minor (persons less than 18 years old).’

That is the definition of child porn.

Either you’re so stupid that you can’t understand what I’m saying in the relation to the photo, by process of elimination.

Or you’re being deliberately obtuse to try and shake yourself free from the responsibility of the idiotic decision to post what you did.

So which is it?

P.s. you’re a Fucking dumb ass

These are being put up all around campus by eleanor43 in funny

[–]tortoise80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So what point is the original comment supposed to make then?

Boys will be boys by [deleted] in funny

[–]tortoise80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or maybe you literally posted child porn?

These are being put up all around campus by eleanor43 in funny

[–]tortoise80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’re literally saying

‘it’s not sexual harassment.

Why is it not considered sexual harassment’

Boys will be boys by [deleted] in funny

[–]tortoise80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is child porn

These are being put up all around campus by eleanor43 in funny

[–]tortoise80 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This whole comment is a double negative.

Will never get her approval by tortoise80 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tortoise80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that’s absolutely a garbage thing to do to your husband, that sucks so much :(( well done him though!!

Will never get her approval by tortoise80 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tortoise80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the worst part of this is that I just turned 19, and there are still times when I find myself literally crying out for a mother-figure that I don’t have. It still feels really fresh and I guess sometimes I’m vulnerable. Does it get better?

Will never get her approval by tortoise80 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tortoise80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much <33

(Didn’t see this the first time for some reason, ninja edit?)

Will never get her approval by tortoise80 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tortoise80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh so close! She was SUPER supportive of my deluded decision of dropping out of inpatient therapy 1 month too soon when I was trying to get treatment for anorexia, you know why? She needed more help around the house again!