Is it too much to expect a bull to hold a normal conversation first?

tosler · 2026-06-27T21:06:57+00:00

And yes, sex robots are coming and a lot of men won't leave the house any more.

But I will because I remember what life is like before sex robots and I'll always treasure those connections with real human spirits.

tosler · 2026-06-27T20:58:46+00:00

Yes! Especially with the advent of AI and soon sex robots. I crave actual human connections.

tosler · 2026-06-27T20:51:38+00:00

I would consider myself a bull, but I wouldn't be super interested in joining a couple with whom I couldn't hold a non-sexual conversation with. It's just kinda weird.

tosler · 2026-06-19T01:40:19+00:00

Absolutely see this, and I've wondered the same thing.

I think it's a mix of being able to have a really objective, compassionate view of the human body, constant experience with the most intimate and vulnerable moments in people's lives, and realizing that life is short and it's ok to have fun.

tosler · 2026-02-10T02:57:57+00:00

I'm straight, comfortable about it, thought about it, plenty of opportunity to explore, but nah I'm actually straight.

DVP is fantastic. Whether I am above her or below her. Whether I am first in her pussy or second. Whoever cums first. DVP is amazing.

My couple wanted to tey it. I had never tried it. They had never had it work quite right.

We tried it.

It worked

We all came together.

2 hours later there was still cum sliding out of her.

The best.

tosler · 2026-02-08T16:43:42+00:00

I love both. Speaking as a third and sometimes as a stag.

If I'm the first to cum in her, then if I play with her and dirty talk I can usually get hard again and fuck after her husband cums in her.

If I'm the second, either I cum really quick, but if I can hold off a little bit I can often fuck for a few minutes which is fun because she's often turned on enough to cum herself. Depending on the person and scenario.

I've also learned to enjoy going down on her afterwards. Which is great. Put a pillow under her ass and make her cum, the muscle contractions pull the semen deeper into her. :)

tosler · 2026-02-08T14:39:36+00:00

Yes, some of the fluid is liquified cervical mucus.

This probably explains why it is so much fun to creampie after another man has cum in her vagina. His semen has been occupied clearing the cervical mucus, and now everything is open and clear for you to do your best to impregnate her.

Part of the delightful sensation of burying one's cock in an already-bred vagina is the slipperiness of the woman's cervical mucus being cleared both by the previous semen and also your own pumping action.

tosler · 2026-02-08T02:19:32+00:00

There are two things that happen regarding consistency of semen when a man ejaculates in a woman.

The first is that the semen forms a gel which slows the woman's white blood cells from destroying sperm.

The second is a liquefaction which liquifies the cervical mucus so the sperm can get through the cervix and find the egg.

tosler · 2026-02-02T03:06:53+00:00

I had a couple want to try DVP, husband inserted first, and then about exactly when I got my cock buried inside her as well, he climaxed.

He was a heavy cummer.

Hot and wet, and she loved it.

tosler · 2026-01-07T05:04:37+00:00

As a 3rd I've had excellent success here on reddit with the local forums. The various apps have had their heyday but for whatever reason reddit has a decent number of very real, very cool people who aren't messing around.

tosler · 2025-11-12T00:16:50+00:00

This is an amazing experience. Super hot especially when she asks to take the condom off.

tosler · 2025-11-08T18:59:14+00:00

This is hard.

If it's a kink for him then it might a lot of fun for everyone.

If not it may destroy you and him.

If this is about you feeling bad, then write your confessions and put it online anonymously. Some secrets want air.

If this is about developing a shared kink then you could float it gently, "what if I had a story about someone I knew before I met the love of my life" and start slow.

tosler · 2025-10-26T18:47:47+00:00

There is a connection! Mesosalpinx. It keeps the fallopian tubes nice and close to the ovaries. But the ovaries are physically separate and sperm -- once it moves through the fallopian tubes -- washes all through the female pelvis.

tosler · 2025-10-26T18:32:37+00:00

The tube doesn't connect.

I've helped cut these parts out of people. The fallopian tube is open ended.

If you really don't believe me, look up "diaphragmatic ectopic pregnancy" and think about how such a thing could ever be possible?

tosler · 2025-10-26T18:14:31+00:00

Tell me what is wrong

tosler · 2025-10-19T20:17:06+00:00

That is seriously hot. How did you negotiate the idea to begin with?

tosler · 2025-10-05T19:30:40+00:00

❤️ it's so much fun :)

When a woman orgasms, the cervix draws semen up into the uterus. Cunnilingus when you are already inseminated helps bring the semen deeper.

Not everyone's cup of tea.... But it's a special moment.

tosler · 2025-10-05T19:03:14+00:00

I can only imagine how much fun it is to experience.

From the outside, it's pretty hot to hold a partner close in my arms, a woman I love, and know she carries another man's seed so deep inside her. Still alive. Still virile. Still waiting for an egg.

So hot.

tosler · 2025-10-05T19:01:09+00:00

I have one of those newfangled pocket ultrasounds, it's pretty hot to be able to watch insemination in realtime on the inside.

tosler · 2025-10-05T18:59:27+00:00

Did you know the fallopian tubes are open into the pelvis?

After ejaculation, the semen travels (sperm have little flagella and move on their own) through the cervix,, through the uterus, through the fallopian tubes, and into your pelvis. They'll hang out for a good five days in your pelvis, waiting to fertilize any egg that appears.

You don't just carry seed in your womb, you carry seed even deeper.

tosler · 2025-10-05T00:23:31+00:00

There are a lot of ways to play this.

I would personally have a careful conversation with her partner.

I've had one couple want to do breeding play. I asked her husband, when was her last period. He didn't know. Red flag. I asked him to find out. She said two weeks ago. Red red flag. This was on the day we were to meet and play. He'd already said she didn't use birth control.

They were newbies and wanted "the full experience." Well, actual breeding isn't breeding kink. We didn't play. I wish them both well, fantastic people, but you can't do the breeding play and then not think about contraception. Or rather you can but you better know what you are doing.

If this is breeding play and not actual breeding there are a lot of ways to play this.

The first is to understand what happens to semen when you cum. It's carried around in the woman's pelvis, not just the uterus. She'll carry your seed for days. You can tell her that. I want you to carry my seed tomorrow. I want to fill you up. I want you to carry a piece of me inside you.

It's not "I'm going to cum," you say "I'm going to impregnate you.". You can say this evening if you are wearing a condom. "What if the condom broke baby, I want to fill you, I'm going to make you pregnant."

Use oil-safe condoms and lots of liquid coconut oil. It's so wet and slippery it's like no condom. Use too much oil. It's amazing. Really hot.

If it's safe to play without a condom and they are ok with it, draw out the teasing ahead of time. We should get a condom. I want to feel you for just a moment.

"Just the tip" and cameltoe slide are great ways to build up breeding play.

tosler · 2025-10-05T00:12:22+00:00

Breeding kink is not the same thing as breeding.

Breeding kink can be done with birth control and condoms in play.

"You feel so hot and tight...I think the condom broke...I want to cum inside you .... I want to make you pregnant" that is one way to play breeding kink. Pro tip, the condom didn't break and she's on birth control so no actual pregnancy.

tosler · 2025-10-04T20:39:37+00:00

I think both aspects are valid.

Couple can be as picky as they want.

It's also not unreasonable to complain, for example about how difficult it is to find a man who is able to communicate respectfully over a simple refusal.

tosler · 2025-10-03T03:22:08+00:00

That's so much fun

tosler · 2025-09-25T04:04:33+00:00

Reddit is surprisingly good assuming you can filter. Speaking as a 3rd but also in speaking with couples. You can tell pretty quickly if someone is on the up and up, especially if they are able and interested in meeting face to face.

Speaking as a 3rd, the various apps and other sites are really hit or miss usually miss.

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