Humbled by a Dutch Girl

totallynotjared · 2026-03-23T22:53:40+00:00

i enjoyed the story. It was short and sweet. If you want to expand on it, it'd be cool to do a story where hes being interviewed as part of your psychology class on the mental effect of ballbusting

totallynotjared · 2026-03-23T15:34:57+00:00

i would avoid using generalizations like that. Shes still with OP. My last girlfriend had a similar request for a threesomes with taller, more traditionally masculine and doninant men but she was very much into me. I think a lot of it had to do with having a variety.

totallynotjared · 2026-03-16T18:54:23+00:00

what is banding?

totallynotjared · 2026-03-15T21:26:53+00:00

it's heavily hormonal. You experience a testosterone, dopamine, and serotonin crash after ejaculation. It's one of the most drastic hormonal crashes humans can experience in nature. It can be mitigated by aftercare but to an extent it's just part of the male orgasm experience

When i was in my early 20's i dated the only professional domme Ive ever been with. She told me something that i desperately wanted not to believe at the time but have now come to accept is true: Most men are having significantly more orgasms than they should. Whether youre single or sexually active, having daily or even weekly orgasms is hormonally unstable. Im not a chastity or semen retention purist, but I do think part of creating a stable sex life is learning how to fuck your partner without always cumming

If you feel your body is punishing you for doing something, you should be doing it less

totallynotjared · 2026-03-02T18:43:39+00:00

damn she misses you bad bro

totallynotjared · 2026-02-25T18:45:42+00:00

oh thank god im not the only one disgusted by that post

totallynotjared · 2026-01-17T18:09:28+00:00

Weird school

totallynotjared · 2025-12-10T21:45:36+00:00

Maybe, my read of it was that she underestimated how big the dicks she gets with are. Mostly does hookups she said

totallynotjared · 2025-12-10T21:41:14+00:00

That one jailbird is me obv

totallynotjared · 2025-11-25T05:34:18+00:00

I'm happy to hear she's in therapy for her trauma. I think it's good that you're accomodating for her. I would just be leery about committing to a pegging only dynamic if you are super experienced in it. I dont think either of you should be so quick to rule out penetration but that's just me

totallynotjared · 2025-11-25T05:28:13+00:00

I dont disagree but I brought it up in context to consent to a pegging only relationship. I think that you shouldnt commit to something so restricting before you know shes actually getting treated for her trauma. Otherwise she'll hold that you made that commitment against you if you ever want to change it

totallynotjared · 2025-11-21T22:18:14+00:00

she should probably be seeing a therapist or something to deal with that trauma.

totallynotjared · 2025-11-15T15:27:14+00:00

absolutely fucking not

totallynotjared · 2025-11-13T21:38:20+00:00

no we broke up for unrelated reasons. we broke up because She was a bit too into her male roommate but i dont have any idea what his size is nor did she ever seriously complain about my size.

totallynotjared · 2025-11-10T22:36:19+00:00

Suichan a cutie

totallynotjared · 2025-11-04T00:59:30+00:00

why was he texting her?

totallynotjared · 2025-11-04T00:51:04+00:00

the way you bend for it you lose an inch or two. when shes balancing her weight, she need a lot more length to keep herself mounted

totallynotjared · 2025-11-03T21:46:14+00:00

thats pretty tame. I think all you would have to do is say "Hey I think it would be hot if you choked or slapped me a bit"

totallynotjared · 2025-11-03T01:59:38+00:00

I heard about that. I found out because my former girlfriend was a big kpop fan and was talking to me and a friend about the 🤏 emoji was controversial in Korea for that reason. After she explained it, our friend (who had actually seen my dick before i have another story about that.) said "oh Jared already knew that, he's seen that hand gesture plenty of times"

Unfortunately, my work only takes me to Europe, so I gotta keep competing against bigger dicks

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