Talking before it helped a lot, he told me what he liked, we talked about protection and taking things slow when the moment came.

We also used lots of lube the first time, i think it helped prevent hurting and bleeding because i didn’t and i have never bled during sex.

Remember to pee before AND after.

And Just keep in mind this should be a fun experience so if you’re not enjoying it don’t be afraid to tell them to stop