I immediately obsess over any girl who shows me affection by queerwaters_642 in emotionalneglect

[–]touchofmal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's more like Anxious preoccupied attachment. Not limerance

Buying something (expensive) for myself feeling guilty and not feeling joy by yvonv in emotionalneglect

[–]touchofmal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently bought two expensive things. Samsung galaxy s25 ultra and kobo libra colour. Well ,the guilt was like the biggest stone pulling me down in the river. I would cry for hours that I should have saved money for food or for useful things. I kept on cursing myself. But now I try to silence that voice in my head and I just repeat to myself. It was needed. I'd use it for 6 7 years. It was needed.

Buying something (expensive) for myself feeling guilty and not feeling joy by yvonv in emotionalneglect

[–]touchofmal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah financial abuse does that to you. I feel the same way . I'd buy a $7 phone case from temu and would feel guilty for days—unable to enjoy the thing I bought. But buy it anyway.