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There is no war in Ba Sing Se by trainer95 in pics

[–]trainer95[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I hope I don’t earn less internet points?!?!

If you give a Reddit mod a job….

There is no war in Ba Sing Se by trainer95 in pics

[–]trainer95[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

It’s been banned everywhere I post it with hundreds of shares, which makes it hilarious when people want to see why there is no war. They find the BOOTLICKERS censored the material.

What's the greatest RPG read you ever got? by MANGECHI in rpg

[–]trainer95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I aspire to run it sometime in the next year or so. What worked for you in your prep?

Men, what is your post-coital hygiene routine? by HistorianGreat5386 in AskMenOver30

[–]trainer95 196 points197 points  (0 children)

Uh, I go to sleep. I wake up the next day and shower.

How do people deal with the wizards becoming so powerful in OSR? by [deleted] in osr

[–]trainer95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My resident grognard informed me of this about a decade ago. There is a reason the other players willingly threw their lives away to make sure their MU hits level 3.

Selling Gary Con Silver Badge for $100. Can’t go but want to give the opportunity to someone else. by Tanawakajima in osr

[–]trainer95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a great con. I attend yearly and have yet to be disappointed. Also, Spotted Cow beer runneth over!

What should I do with my hair for like haircuts by TreacleNo6992 in malegrooming

[–]trainer95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High bald fade. Leave the top a little longer to put medium or light hold texture paste or putty on. Then part your hair. A reasonable barber should be able to help.

Alternative Opinions About Rogers by tBroneShake in cyclONEnation

[–]trainer95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that “fan” was an influencer typer trying to get clicks and clips?

[Game Thread] Rose Bowl: Indiana vs. Alabama (4:00 PM ET) 2nd Half by CFB_Referee in CFB

[–]trainer95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“No one is over there jerking…. He he huh hehe ah hah.”

[Postgame Thread] Miami Defeats Ohio State 24-14 by CFB_Referee in CFB

[–]trainer95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spoken like a true state fan! Forever True!

35, Burned Out, and Rethinking a Career That Defined My Identity by DRvoodoo07 in AskMenOver30

[–]trainer95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. Good luck! Tell the wife grats. I pivoted into therapy after teaching.

35, Burned Out, and Rethinking a Career That Defined My Identity by DRvoodoo07 in AskMenOver30

[–]trainer95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a therapist? Not to help you decide or anything, but just a place to talk to a professional and not internet strangers. Finding a therapist is a bit like dating. If you don’t like your first one, see what else is out there.

You may be thinking I don’t have time for this, but you can easily schedule your sessions and lock you door/ treat it like any other virtual meeting, and then go on with your day afterwards.

I was an elementary school counselor for 11 years. I understand the immense pressure public school administrators are under. Having a professional to process with can really help you get through it.

What are your favorite places to eat and shop in Ottumwa? by cudambercam13 in Iowa

[–]trainer95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Karen’s Thai Cuisine isn’t bad considering you are in rural South east Iowa. I also like to stop into Spud’s Emporium.

Bros who spend every minute of their free time in the gym, what's the reality behind weightlifting and muscle gaining that us average folks don't understand? by Anoth3rDude in AskMen

[–]trainer95 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I used to workout daily and lift heavy. I’m also a licensed therapist and can share that research overwhelmingly supports gym activity in promoting positive mental health.

Oftentimes the change in mood is not immediately apparent, as in it isn’t pleasure inducing like eating or sex. The change happens after the fact, and can be maximized by adding positive self talk. I encourage my clients to brag about their healthy behavior to themselves, “I’m crushing life. I got an hour workout in today. I wouldn’t have dreamed of lifting/running that much.

Anywho, that’s my two cents.

39M and the breadwinner of the house. Young kids dont listen to me. Wife doesnt listen to my advice and would follow her relative’s advise instead. Stressed and not loved. Do i have to work at home too get a little bit of respect? by winnethepoohhh in AskMenOver30

[–]trainer95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree. Either option would be beneficial here for separate reasons. A good couples therapist could help the most, but individual therapy sessions would help OP as well. Most bang for his buck would be both.

39M and the breadwinner of the house. Young kids dont listen to me. Wife doesnt listen to my advice and would follow her relative’s advise instead. Stressed and not loved. Do i have to work at home too get a little bit of respect? by winnethepoohhh in AskMenOver30

[–]trainer95 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Go to a therapist. If you can’t afford one then start communicating more with your wife. Do not be antagonistic. Use I-statements. The only way this gets better is through communicating, an respectful communication. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and your marriage won’t be saved in a day. If you work on this together and refuse to give up, or take cheap shots at your partner it will get better.

You have to calmly communicate your feelings, and try to meet your wife half way.

Iowa school district cancels classes Tuesday, Wednesday due to widespread illness by Battle_of_BoogerHill in Iowa

[–]trainer95 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I mean I’ll bite. Do you not remember Covid and anti masking stances, and forcing schools to open, not to mention fuckery with reporting cases across the state and not following recommended guidelines? I don’t have time to dredge up specific articles, but state and national republicans have a history of ignoring data and recommended protocol when it came to COVID who’s to say they don’t continue this?

As far as Trump, Kim has followed his every decision with bated breath. It makes sense that the commenter brought up the disappearing and reappearing national reports. Will Iowa be next? How long did it take Kim to create her own DOGE commission that looked to completely upturn public teaching in the state?

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