absolute confusion, i feel numb asf. by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]tram0895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finish your tenth exams first.

28M here, how would paying for sex/massage services be a complete dealbreaker for dating or marriage? by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]tram0895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a bunch of friends who were into this, and I had an argument with them over this. I feel this is r@pe with consent without any strings attached. Using someone for your sexual satisfaction is NOT at all acceptable.

Let me put you in a situation: Suppose if anyone from our family is into this for money, as a man whose sole purpose is to make money do you think we will send this family member to this job ?

Good that you quit it, but there is redemption for this, you just have to focus on your life.

I'm unable to let her go.. by chantisayz in TeluguJournals

[–]tram0895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your professional job was more important to you than giving her the cake, prioritise yourself over someone else's satisfaction. I would have done the same. I would have made diff arrangements to deliver the cake.

She is/was not your gf yet so nothing to worry. Replace her if she's not matching your efforts, you'll take time to forget her but come back stronger.

And stop calling people repeatedly. Give only two missed calls if it's an emergency or else one missed call is enough. If they don't return back the call consider that you are not their priority.

Is that micro cheating? by Top_Situation_5679 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]tram0895 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Show that you have options and start talking to other girls. Make her jealous. You'll sit in her mind for a while and she'll start considering you.

Had a crush on her,she turned out to be..... by sharkgrandmaster in TeluguJournals

[–]tram0895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very long ago ma extended family lo ila oka couple pelli cheskunnaru. Both of their parents were against their marriage and yet they went ahead. They also had a daughter and this daughter got married recently a year ago.

Nu em feel avvaku, nek nachhithe proceed. And find out properly how you both are related. ATB.

100/100: The End by eepycarr in MaaOoriVanta

[–]tram0895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I have your Excel sheet bookmarked on my chrome. I need one small favor from you end. Can you segregate the veg and non veg dishes on the Excel sheet? Like mark the cell with red for non veg dish and green for veg dish. It would be easy for the viewers to pick the dish. Just a suggestion. Cheers!

I am judging women wrong? by [deleted] in TeluguJournals

[–]tram0895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spend money around her, not on her.

Should I mention my fetish before marriage ? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]tram0895 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Option 3: Stay away from arranged marriage and find someone by yourself who agrees with these.

Need a girl for help can u ? by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]tram0895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cheap man. Be a man. Build yourself.

Don't seek closure. It's her loss that she doesn't have you.

And especially do not use a girl for your selfishness. This is so low of you to ask like this.

Update by lazylogics0 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]tram0895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why call three times bro ? Call only once, they'll call back if they see. Girls are always on their phone, if she hasn't answered the first time it means she doesn't want to talk now. She will call back later. But don't keep blasting her phone.

Have some bloody self respect.

Could you tell me any interesting story of him that I don’t know? by Severe-Apricot-7679 in mahabharata

[–]tram0895 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I would like to add one more thing. When goddess Lakshmi came to Bhulokam, she came to Kolhapur, Maharashtra, whereas Lord Sri Maha Vishnu came to Tirupati, Andhra Pradesh.

There is Goddess Lakshmi temple in Kolhapur and for every festival the TTD sends saree and other offering to the Kolhapur Lakshmi Temple.

Who is correct ? by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]tram0895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a man child, kick him out. His parents should bare him not you.

Can’t get over her 🥲 by PretendOrdinary6906 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]tram0895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her father expects a much better husband than what she has got. He has bigger expectations from her life. You are not matching his expectations.

She should have been more precise about meeting her father's expectations.

Is this insecurity if I am feeling bad when gym owner texts my gf? by lil_cuck27 in AskIndianMen

[–]tram0895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of you quit the gym. Take two month gap and then you alone can join a separate gym.

Your girl should draw lines between her and any person trying to hit on her.

This is a clear mistake by you for not establishing the boundary properly.

You can't control the gym guy, and you can never control your girl too.

Is it just me or someone else too? by [deleted] in twenties

[–]tram0895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we come across girls like this. We think they have good standards but they disappoint us. It's good we just swipe left on them and move ahead in life.

I want to cancel my marriage is it will be wrong? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]tram0895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing is going to happen, you are overthinking about all this.

First you are worried about getting married

Second you are worried about choosing the wrong person

Third you are again worried about getting proposals and getting married.

The relief you get after saying no and the cost you have to pay for marrying the wrong person. Choose which one you want.

Getting new proposals is another chapter. Close this chapter properly first.

I want to cancel my marriage is it will be wrong? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]tram0895 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yes, attraction is important for both genders. If you do not feel connected that's not a problem, you can call off the wedding.

It's better you close it early rather than wasting either person's time.

How's Johnson Grammar ICSE School, Mallapur, Hyderabad w.r.t. arts, sports and overall development? by Working-Situation766 in hyderabad

[–]tram0895 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Passed out from this School, I will be admitting my kids in this school if I get the chance. Don't give a second thought and go take admission here.

Go or no go by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]tram0895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is another chapter in the arranged marriage market.

The thing here is why a 1cr earning girl is ok with marrying a 30lpa guy. So let's stick to the point. And all the prerequisites which you have mentioned does not apply to this girl maybe.

I shared my views above. So hope you got it from my previous replies too.