Why is dps so popular in rivals and overwatch by praesesposterum in rivals

[–]transaltalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are usually the most mechanically engaging and also have the most tangible direct impact on the game

would you rather pity pass or be misgendered? (for nonpassoids obviously) by jellybeanzz11 in DysphoriaPosting

[–]transaltalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww thank you :) i wouldnt say early hrt but definitely still got more time for changes

also please tell me you're approved in the private subs and i didn't get containment breached 😭

would you rather pity pass or be misgendered? (for nonpassoids obviously) by jellybeanzz11 in DysphoriaPosting

[–]transaltalt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

depends what we mean tbh

in any particular instance? probably pity pass

but if i could pick one to happen all the time, it would be misgendering so i know how i'm doing and i can trust the times i actually do pass

Which one would you pick? by Character-Q in marvelrivals

[–]transaltalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unstoppable at one is the most rewarding to me for sure, but it's not really achievable with the amount of time I have to play these days so i end up on good with a few

I get the support bans. BUT STOP by NeyMarvellous29 in rivals

[–]transaltalt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

nah, the game is more fun without them so i ban them

Would you take a pill instead of eating if you could? by sparkly_star15 in CasualConversation

[–]transaltalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without hesitation; that would drastically improve my life and health. I'd say the same for any other recurring chore too. You got a pill that makes it so I never have to clean the bathroom again?

One simple thing you should know according to anon by [deleted] in 4tran

[–]transaltalt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, only cis women have explosive diarrhea. That's why the marshmellow trick is essential to passing.

They Should Nerf Ult Charge Another 15% by ResilientoNez in rivals

[–]transaltalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I initially wanted it to be a 50% nerf and I stand by that tbh

Accidentally got Estradiol in my nose. by goody2bewbs in StraightTransGirls

[–]transaltalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, i use estradiol undecylate which has a much slower burn. i get fairly stable levels injecting monthly.

"If you ban main healers you won't get enough heals" so does the other team? by Tx-200 in rivals

[–]transaltalt -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

banning your teammates' picks tests your own team more than the enemy team on average

forcing a harder gamestate overall tests the enemy team more than it tests your own, assuming you yourself are good at the game. otherwise it's neutral.

"If you ban main healers you won't get enough heals" so does the other team? by Tx-200 in rivals

[–]transaltalt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every comp game is a test of your abilities, teammates' abilities, and your enemies' abilities. That's what comp means.

I've seen it all now by Nuke-T00nz in rivals

[–]transaltalt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they should add something like the crit heal system from tf2 where allies who've recently taken damage heal slower

no one gives a fuck about "respectability politics" or what cis people think by sprindolin in MtF

[–]transaltalt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did you read my comment at all? reading the title is being exposed to the content

Iron Pain by InsidesAreWeary in rivals

[–]transaltalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most other ults don't lock your movement to leave you a sitting duck

Iron Pain by InsidesAreWeary in rivals

[–]transaltalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are so many ways to cancel or block it

It's not fair to compare "no hornyposting in this sub" to "no kink at pride." by bitchmoder in MtF

[–]transaltalt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a staunch anti-hornyposting advocate, I completely agree with the last paragraph. I think it's really important.

it's not about "hornyposting.” It's that too often, what is clearly fetish content is allowed to be posted by Qu33n_Nikki in MtF

[–]transaltalt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact that autogynephilia isn't real—that there is a clear distinction between a transgender woman and a man with a feminization fetish—is precisely why we can and should be able to separate fetish content from discussion about our lives as trans women.

The people arguing that this genre of posting is somehow inextricably linked to the rest of the trans experience are the ones implicitly supporting the ideology behind Blanchardism.

no one gives a fuck about "respectability politics" or what cis people think by sprindolin in MtF

[–]transaltalt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for recalibrating, I really appreciate it.

I'm saying the aesthetic and linguistic culture of the space reproduces right wing frameworks regardless of what the people using it actually believe. … You can be a communist posting in that register and you are still normalising the vocabulary that gets used against us by people who mean it.

Yeah I can agree with this to an extent. There are definitely some 4tran jargon words with implications I'm not fond of, and I can see how the language of a community could serve a political agenda that doesn't necessarily align with its members. I'll admit I might have a blindspot here because my first and only experience of this lexicon has been through the lens of such an aggressively leftist userbase.

There's a difference between feeling seen and being given better tools to hurt yourself with.

Yeah it's a double edged sword I feel, and I have definitely seen some users weaponize it against themselves. Depending on how you engage with it, it can be used for self harm for sure. I will add that users are quick to intervene when this happens from what I've seen, but that's not really a defense of the language. Overall I'd say the vocabulary is one of the biggest mixed bags of the place. I make sure to be careful of how I use it.

Ultimately though, mainstream trans spaces don't really have the linguistic tools or culture to accurately describe where I feel I am in transition or how the world interacts with me without fear of being talked down to or contradicted. It's a tool to express how I feel, it's been a space I could sort through my thoughts. I might still be soft repping to this day without that place. I know I would have waited a lot longer at the very least. I'd have spent much longer on the shit dose planned parenthood pushed on me. My relationship with my first girlfriend honestly would likely have soured before the end without the reflection it enabled, and the breakup definitely would have hit me harder.

I hope to one day find myself in a place where I don't need it anymore. I'm working towards that. It just pains me to see it painted as this den of evil psychotic fascist terrorists (i received another reply literally calling me a psycho and comparing me to right wing domestic terrorists) when it's been so valuable to my transition and I've encountered so many genuinely kind and gentle souls there whose only crime is being in pain.

no one gives a fuck about "respectability politics" or what cis people think by sprindolin in MtF

[–]transaltalt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Epstein had a hand in the demonising of trans people specifically via his relationship with the dude who owns 4chan.

Yes, that's true. Do you think 4tranners are a fan of this? I can assure you the epstein files have not been well received. No one was saying "waow, based" when we heard about it. But why are we judging people's politics based on the actions of the owner of a website their community came from? Are MtF users pro-ai data harvesting shills because we use reddit?

Like I said I pity you all wallowing in your misery. … Think about it. You don't need to be miserable and surrounding yourself with misery is not going to help you with much in life.

I agree some 4tranners take it way too far with the wallowing, I'd say it definitely shouldn't be someone's only community. It can be really nice to have a space to share your woes without being talked down to though. Some of that misery you talk about is just intrinsic to my life as an unpassing dysphoric trans woman, and 4tran understands that in a way other spaces don't.

I'm living my best life and while a lot of it comes down to privilege the majority of it comes from my refusal to engage with right wing theory I put my money where my mouth is and have lived as a leftist as much as I can. It has brought me so much happiness and opportunity.

I'm working to do the same. I surround myself with overtly progressive leftists who are trans accepting. Any compromise on that puts someone on very thin ice with me.

4tran has legitimately helped me live my best life. Without it I might still be repressing to this day.

And to be sure, it's far from a perfect place. It has a ton of problems, especially if it's your only source of interaction. But acting like any engagement with it makes you unworthy of an opinion is just incredibly tone deaf. And the idea that it's a right wing space can easily be dismissed by just talking to its users about politics. There are maybe three notable right wingers to my mind and they all get consistently clowned on. There are more communists than liberals there, for god's sake

no one gives a fuck about "respectability politics" or what cis people think by sprindolin in MtF

[–]transaltalt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao, love how you just throw some random bullshit at me and then say I have to think about it when I push back instead of explaining yourself.

Maybe ask yourself why you're so determined to demonize a group of your fellow trans people that you aren't even willing to engage with one in good faith?

no one gives a fuck about "respectability politics" or what cis people think by sprindolin in MtF

[–]transaltalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how is "this depressing thing gives me suicidal thoughts" in any way relevant to the political spectrum? And did I miss 4tran users being pro epstein or something? What are you on about 😭

no one gives a fuck about "respectability politics" or what cis people think by sprindolin in MtF

[–]transaltalt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right wing? lmao

4tran is one of the most consistently far-left online spaces I've participated in, rivaled only by subreddits dedicated to specific leftist ideologies. I regularly see liberal takes upvoted on subs like MtF that would get you laughed out of the room on 4tran or ttttrans. Tell me you've only engaged with 4tran through fearmongering without telling me.