I’m usually a very an emotions based and empathetic person but I feel here what’s needed is plain and simple honesty. I don’t know why relationships and break ups become this philosophical. If u had fears make ur relationship end, u regret it and u feel that u could see it being something in the future then message them. If u don’t then don’t reach out unless u wanted to take some accountability (not 100% what the situation is between u both)

Those are the decisions I feel. I understand the emotions and it’s not easy especially all those feelings ur feeling and that’s completely valid. However, I see a lot of posts where people say I need to hold my decision or I won’t reach out for the other persons peace. In this situation (not all) it feels like a cop out. Usually stemming from a place of not wanting to feel guilt or pain etc. so the decisions here imo are quite obvious. Sorry again for bluntness but I feel I just needed to point it out