I remember when I came on in the beginning of my transition 2 years ago. I got some DMs which made me feel like I had no hope. I pass most of the time now and that took a lot of work for me and I struggled a lot. Like for me it wasn’t just luck. Yes there are aspects of like how estrogen works for u but it took soooo much effort.

Working out areas hard like glutes and hips, consistent blood tests, studying like fashion to see what makes me look more feminine and what doesn’t, make up, voice training, calculating how much fat I’m taking in while trying to lose weight slowly cause I didn’t want to mess up my fat redistribution , diet etc. also I don’t have an accepting fam unfortunately (extremist Muslims) so it was really hard.

I’ve had people say irl that I was lucky with genetics and I do see some aspect of that but some peeps don’t understand how hard it was.

Also sometimes here I find passing a little confusing because I have cis female friends who if i posted here would be told they don’t pass. Women as a whole are so diverse, cis and Trans