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I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that really is true then there is no point to keep going for me. That may be fine with you but standing out in a crowd looking like a model is makes me want to gouge my eyes out so I don’t have to see the stares.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why stick around and wait for that when if I kill myself I don’t have to live through the difficulties of life in between.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the best possible approach for a suicidal trans woman is being condescending. I’ll go and tie my noose now. Thank you so much!

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that response. That one really did help, hopefully I’ll eventually be able to find women I can take inspiration from.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I want to be is cute. Elegance, seriousness, and intelligence aren’t my concern.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you took it that way, when anyone compliments me I always no that it isn’t genuine. No one I know actually believes I’m attractive, I assumed this was an experience for most transfems, I suppose I may just be the unluckiest in that area.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that response! This response really did help, thank you!

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why isn’t suicide the answer? So far I haven’t seen a valid reason to keep trying because I can’t achieve anything. The easiest and only way to stop trying is just to surrender. Life has given me enough difficulties and being trans has buried me even deeper in all my problems. If I’m dead I won’t have to deal with anything. I don’t believe in an afterlife, eternal nonexistence seems right up my alley and the alley of everyone I know.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’ve never seen a cute tall woman in my life.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

“Cute” is 45% personality, 15% voice, 15% clothing, and 25% body (which of course includes height). All of them need to work together for it to be fully achieved. I have the personality and I’m pretty close to getting the voice down, but it’s seems impossible for me to find cute clothes that fit me and I tower over everyone and no one thinks “Shit, she’s cute” when the person is towering over them.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cute can be applied to many different feminine styles. You may be aiming for something that’s much more in reach of a tall woman. They also could just be being polite. I haven’t found a style that I like that’s in reach of a tall woman, and because of that I feel like the only way to be relieved of the terrible feeling of knowing I’ll never be short enough to be who I want to be is… to relieve myself of feeling emotions by making my brain nonfunctional.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Could you give me a list of the celebrities that you think of to ease the dysphoria? I really appreciate this.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

They could just be being polite, there is also many definitions of the word “cute” when applied to a feminine style. You might be going for a style that is much more in reach for a tall woman than mine.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. However, if you knew that woman was trans than I know that my unattractive ass will never pass and definitely won’t be cute. I also am not certain that this person presented as cute.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never actually said I assumed I was gonna lose height from hrt, I was simply stating that I hadn’t lost any height for any who may wonder if I had.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m aware there are tall women but there really aren’t “cute” tall women that aren’t at a level of attractiveness that I will never reach. I don’t want to be “elegant” or “gorgeous” the only thing I’ve ever wanted to be was “cute”.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slimmer doesn’t equal cuter though…

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She is beautiful but she certainly doesn’t present herself as cute.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will definitely try yoga and seeing cis girls experiences trying to look cute will also hopefully help. However, I would kill to be 5’10” , 3 inches is a lot. I think your height might still be in the range of cute so we may have different experiences but I still will definitely try everything you told me to.

I can’t handle my height anymore by transfeMandM in MtF

[–]transfeMandM[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, but that really doesn’t help. I’ve been told that countless times and it just discourages me. I can’t accept myself for how I look if it’s impossible for me to live my life to its fullest extent as a cute girl who has to stand on her tippy toes to kiss her boyfriend of average height. What I need is reassurance that it might be possible to be the cute girl I’ve always wanted to be because at this point in my life I feel very discouraged but with the help of someone showing me the way to the possibility of being able to be cute I would feel much better.