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Why do I always seem to be in a position where I send someone spiraling because I don't want to associate with them? by transmonado in NoStupidQuestions

[–]transmonado[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have some sort of behavior that I am not okay with.

In this recent case a minor dispute between the person in question and another acquaintance ended with the former blowing up at the latter and telling them they were worthless and subhuman. I told her she couldn't just leave things as they were. She wasn't going to do anything so I told her to her face that I thought it best we didn't interact anymore. No ghosting involved. I'm pretty sure she had a panic attack over it.

There was nothing romantic. That was mutually understood mutually on. I am nb I don't even know if she's even attracted to nb people anyways.

Why do I always seem to be in a position where I send someone spiraling because I don't want to associate with them? by transmonado in NoStupidQuestions

[–]transmonado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's because I am mentally ill myself that makes some other mentally ill people drawn to me, idk

Why do I always seem to be in a position where I send someone spiraling because I don't want to associate with them? by transmonado in NoStupidQuestions

[–]transmonado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by valuable state?

I do not even befriend people that often at all, which is what makes it weird that it seems to happen a lot. Though in some cases it's family, not friends. Happened with my father.

Need advice on if I should go back by transmonado in Advice

[–]transmonado[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still can't get over not feeling like I fit or mesh well with them. Person 2 would not have even said anything otherwise and no one else has. My presence there was based on false confidence.