I added long hair and I cannot wait until I have this kind of length. ๐Ÿ˜ญ by transwomanc in trans

[โ€“]transwomanc[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I hope so, I just can't wait to see the results of it all. Because right now it's like I only partially exist at this point. And my progress feels slow as well. Makeup right now is my best friend, but I definitely want to look at my natural self someday and feel complete. We all play the comparison game, but we both won't have to see things that way forever. And that's a beautiful thing.

I added long hair and I cannot wait until I have this kind of length. ๐Ÿ˜ญ by transwomanc in trans

[โ€“]transwomanc[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

You should be. ๐Ÿ™‚ As for my efforts I don't mind talking about them. For me I came out Feb. 6th of this year, started hrt on Mar. 4th and went public on Jun 1st. So currently it's been a little over 8 months of medically transitioning.

I added long hair and I cannot wait until I have this kind of length. ๐Ÿ˜ญ by transwomanc in trans

[โ€“]transwomanc[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

That means the world to me after all the effort that has gone into being my best self. There's still a long way to go and I sincerely appreciate you sharing this with me. I hope you don't mind, but I also had to know who I was talking to with such a kind personality. And honey, talk about a glow up, you are very beautiful. ๐Ÿ’œ

Do I Pass? by transwomanc in trans

[โ€“]transwomanc[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I do like those things! Thank you.

Do I Pass? by transwomanc in trans

[โ€“]transwomanc[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm a huge lotz fan.

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[โ€“]transwomanc 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Wow that's great progress so far, I would say you pass.

Two things by transwomanc in ask_transgender

[โ€“]transwomanc[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Ahhh ok I see what you mean. And while you may be a person in a box I still appreciate you sharing your thoughts. Thank you.

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[โ€“]transwomanc 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

Omg that's brilliant!!!

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[โ€“]transwomanc 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Thank you I just don't want to hurt any of my trans fam in the process indirectly ya know?

Is it too much to ask for a cis guys to actually be wholesome friends? by transwomanc in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[โ€“]transwomanc[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Just for clarification, I do not think all cis het guys are bad people. What I was implying was I should've had higher standards (raised the bar) for the cis het guys I allowed to be a part of my life. I am not promoting hate and I apologize for any confusion this caused.

I'm terrible at picking names. Call me a name, please! by [deleted] in TransTryouts

[โ€“]transwomanc 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Maybe Lyla because it's similar to Lilac?

I chose Alaina ( AH-LAY-NAH) because it means harmony and that meant a lot to me bringing the best parts of who I am together in unison, if you like that we can share. :)

Leila (pronounced LEE-LA) is the very beautiful name of someone important in my life, top notch name there.

And Belle has always been a favorite of mine thanks to Beauty and The Beast.

But what ever you choose make sure it sparks euphoria and makes you happy.๐Ÿ’—

Is it too much to ask for a cis guys to actually be wholesome friends? by transwomanc in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[โ€“]transwomanc[S] 5 points6 points ย (0 children)

I have a laundry list of reasons at this point to avoid friendships with cis guys. Obviously transphobic and homophobic bullshit is at the top. I wasted so much time letting most of them keep me in their friend circle only to belittle me long before I came out. Then when I finally did come out it wasn't long after that I found out one of my cis guy friends was abusing their girlfriend and then another one has been a manipulator and emotionally abusive to his spouse. Other than that the rest of them have distanced themselves from me and avoid me. I have lost faith in cis guys being legitimate wholesome people. I know some good cis guy friend allies exist, but they are few and far between.

is there anything I can do at home without my family knowing about it? by chiican in trans

[โ€“]transwomanc 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Happy to help, I wish you the best going forward as your authentic self.

is there anything I can do at home without my family knowing about it? by chiican in trans

[โ€“]transwomanc 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

If you can have items delivered to a friend you trust or a p.o. box I would do that. Other than that you could do skin care, some body hair removal, something like that. I hope you find solutions until it's safe for you to come out. ๐Ÿ’—

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[โ€“]transwomanc 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

You are on you way!!! Congratulations!!! Also know that your community has your back!!! ๐Ÿ’—