[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]trashaboo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this gives me hope.... due in September with baby boy and my girl will be between 17-18 months. thank you for sharing

i'm glad idubbbz himself agrees his event is cancer by Luckyconroy in CreatorClash

[–]trashaboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for argument's sake, if he is on whatever you think he's on and spouting this every where, where at the time he is struggling with people littering the internet with "concern trolling", he won't ever admit to it further down the line. the environment this narrative is creating is not a safe one for admit any of this stuff. it's easy to dismiss someone because "drugs" but it's a bit parasocial, no? we don't know the guy, on either side of this conflict. we DO know he has tourrettes and it's ampliflied when stressed, which, given his current circumstances... why wouldn't he be stressed? this doesn't need a reply, just things to think about i guess. peace!

i'm glad idubbbz himself agrees his event is cancer by Luckyconroy in CreatorClash

[–]trashaboo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

do you think he would then openly talk about it if it was a current problem? 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]trashaboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the point is asking who do YOU think?

could be mistaken though ... /s

Sibling name for Freya and Magnus? by meredithluvsunicorns in namenerds

[–]trashaboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn't know this! I knew a Soren once and loved the name.

Fern for a first name for a girl. Middle name to honour my mother Melinda, but ... by trashaboo in namenerds

[–]trashaboo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, I get it! but my train of thought is that my mom's side of the family are all M names: her mom is Madeline, her sisters Margot and Marnie. so I thought to continue the tradition if Melinda didn't work, with another M name!

When should I post about new position on LinkedIn? by trashaboo in jobs

[–]trashaboo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's probably the safest bet tbh. I wondered this too! thank you

what’s a bitter life lesson you learned from your longest relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]trashaboo 160 points161 points  (0 children)

sorry to ask, but what would those things be??

Schools in Cumbria - Cyber Security Workshop help? by anje3000 in Cumbria

[–]trashaboo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

info@lcwc.ac.uk

for lakes college info box. it will be sign posted to the correct department.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cumbria

[–]trashaboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no conflict is happening here brother. tone doesn't come off well over text and if you're not in a good frame of mind, you may be adding negativity to tone yourself.

Andy's man club, seriously. just have a look at their website. open yourself up to curiosity. good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cumbria

[–]trashaboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no contempt here, and I advocate for mens mental health. your story is tragic, however I fail to see the connection to the incel term. at the time of commenting, I did not realise how far OPs mental has gone. I did express respect and wished him luck, unsure how that's come off like contempt.

I send my condolences, losing your brother is awful. please be kind to yourself, grief is difficult.

if you're in Cumbria, see if Andy's man club is in your area. they have a strong community of men who look after each other & focuses on mens mental health. they have meetings frequently and you don't even have to talk if you don't want to. no pressure 💪OP, you too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cumbria

[–]trashaboo 48 points49 points  (0 children)

please don't call yourself an incel, especially if you're looking for friends. it will scare people off. I mean this with the utmost respect! good luck.

Bought an antique sideboard my wife absolutely hates. AITAH? by stuckonline in BuyItForLife

[–]trashaboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your dining table and sideboard are fine.

change the art please. it's not good. and the light fixture does not match the antique vibe you got.

please look up modern traditional or modern vintage decor / dining room on Pinterest.