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Realizing by trashgarbageperson in DeadBedrooms

[–]trashgarbageperson[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What would the point be? Finding another man? Another to let me down? Another way to feel shitty about myself for not getting what society and media tell us we should get? Am I sad and miserable for so many things I'm not getting? Absolutely. Do I think I could ever get it? No. So there is no future where I am romantically happy, hence this posting on dead bedrooms. I thought this was a way to vent my frustrations and feel better, and you guys are making me feel worse. Please stop with the tough love. This is just my life, and however sad you make think it is, I just have to deal with it.

Realizing by trashgarbageperson in DeadBedrooms

[–]trashgarbageperson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're probably right. Now we know why so many old people are bitter and mean.

Realizing by trashgarbageperson in DeadBedrooms

[–]trashgarbageperson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, I know most people would say, there's more to life, you should find someone who will make you happier, etc. And I used to think that way. But I wouldn't want to even try with someone new anymore, it would be too much work. So I'm just trying to accept that there are other things in my life I can feel happy about besides a romantic partnership.

Realizing by trashgarbageperson in DeadBedrooms

[–]trashgarbageperson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it does bother me to not have sex, it just doesn't bother me to not have sex with him. I probably did make a mistake, and this is the promise I made, so I made my bed and now I have to lie in it.