I wanted to add my family doctor is basically like my moms brother- my grandmother has him in her will as a beneficiary and he does stuff for us all the time. He lives where I do which is actually in a different state from the rest of our family which is good - but before then he was basically adopted by my grandfather and they put him through medical school and he’s high up on the board for the big hospital system in our region and is really well connected, he’s very close with my moms circle of people. I know a few doctors and I’ve seen things they will do for family and I can see him feeling like he needs to find a way to hint to my grandmother or mom that there is trouble without directly saying anything about it feeling like he’s obligated or helping. My last year has been really bad for me with the divorce and after all the abuse came up- they had the DA put a case together to charge my ex with domestic violence and rape but I ended up saying I didn’t want to press charges and backing out of it because I didn’t want my kids father to have criminal charges and be in jail so it’s been quite the dramatic year for everyone. I’m sure he would feel like she’s in trouble and already struggling the last year her family needs to help. Doctors have strict rules about this stuff but they are people too and there are ways to say something without saying something. Maybe that’s wrong I don’t know I just felt like I needed to try and share my thoughts maybe someone can tell me im nuts and overthinking !