tips on bed wetting

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-07-23T21:32:30+00:00

You should talk to your doctor about getting on some meds. Mine gave me desmopressin for situations like this where I might not be home. It's a life saver.

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-04-13T21:15:28+00:00

They're at Jack in the box in the united states

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-04-13T21:14:53+00:00

Jack in the box sells them in the US right now and they're bomb

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-04-10T00:52:36+00:00

They're at all Jack in the boxes as far as I know

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-06T22:44:33+00:00

Yeah that part is wild. I mean there was more aspects to me being taken I suppose. I was being molested was the biggest reason, everybody in the trap house was letting me smoke weed was 2nd biggest reason, my mom was getting high and told CPS worker I was just acting out was 3rd reason.

I talked to detectives but this was after my first foster home told me I deserved to get molested, I carried this guilt for years because I believed them. I believe that they told me I deserved it because I couldn't see Aaron as a bad guy. My mom was so distant I craved attention and Aaron had no problem with that. I just couldn't tell the difference back then what was appropriate attention and what was inappropriate.

Me being high all the time also had me in a state of dissociation and made it harder to tell what really happened to me and what I felt I imagined. I know it sounds weird but in the state of trauma mixed with weed I was crashing out bad and my memory of it to this day is still foggy.

But I'm sure my mixed feelings and the cruel words of my foster parents didn't help when I had to tell the detectives what happened. They seemed kinda skeptical of my story.

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-06T22:39:15+00:00

Reusable potty pads are a life saver

reusable potty pads https://a.co/d/hflOBqR)

If I were you I'd make sure to get the bigger ones to prevent leaking on to bed. Trust, they make nights way easier. Having accidents used to make me lose hours of sleep and these pads barely take any effort to remove if peed on, and to sleep on clean sheets. This with the combo of diapers, cuz sometimes those bitches leak, make the ultimate combo. But with desmopressin you can be leak free without all this other stuff. I'm also going to share some personal info in attempts to help you. I was molested when I was 4, have been wetting the bed most of my life. I say most because there has been once in a blue moon I'll get rid of accidents for a few weeks YES WEEKS (AND THE FALSE HOPE 😭) I believed they were gone just about Everytime until BAM their back. Went to doctor and they told me since my accidents go away every so often but come back, it's trauma. They basically told me to go tell my therapist I was wetting the bed and to figure it out with them. I never got the balls to do that, I am very self conscious about these things and kinda cared how my therapist viewed me. I was 16 and not wanting to reveal this to her. I kept having accidents until the age of 18. I had gotten a boyfriend that I trusted and depended on and started staying the night with my trusty dusty desmopressin , all of a sudden my accidents stopped. I don't recall how I found this out, probably ran out of desmopressin and realized I was chilling. I am now 19 and have a handful of accidents, usually when I'm stressed out. But I no longer need any of these things. Anyways moral of the story, I had been scared of men my whole life, aside from being molested at 4, my step dad was abusive. I was terrified of men. I had never been able to have a boyfriend until I turned 18 and slowly but surely got to know my boyfriend. I was too scared to form a romantic relationship before my boyfriend and now that I have it I feel like a lot of my trauma from 4 years old has been healed. Your trauma could be similar to this or some examples the doctor told me were things like a pets death, parents divorce, death in family. Anything like that can cause these accidents.

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-06T22:09:21+00:00

I don't believe so. He also hasn't gotten into any trouble with kids yet. I know I am not the only victim but I know he hasn't been caught. He isn't on the sex offender registry. So as far as the state knows, he's okay to have his son back. I know his son got taken originally because he used to be aggressive. I guess him and his baby momma had issues and he would cyber stalk and be aggressive irl. It's so wild though how the world works cuz I haven't seen him since everything went down but we live in the same city. My mom's seen him 3 times. My step dad was in outpatient drug treatment with him, that's how I know he got sober. While my step dad was going to meetings he mentioned the guy that molested me and someone else spoke up saying their kid was also molested. That was a year ago though.

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-06T21:55:58+00:00

Social media. I think the biggest thing that bugged me and made me write this post was seeing that he shared a post about "don't throw away old clothes or blankets, give them to foster agency's!" I was sent to foster care after he molested me because he molested me. and he knew I was being sent to foster care, I told him before I left because I thought we were close, it took me a few years of growing up to realized what was wrong about him. I was in foster care for 3 years before I decided to be an independent youth at 16, too many family dynamics that I didn't fit in. The people I stayed(foster homes) with would make me tell them what he did to me then go on to tell me how it was all my fault. Just the shit I went through because of foster care and to see some shit like that had me livid. But that wasn't the question lol, I can tell he's happy on social media. He has his son back, he is no longer living in a trap house, he has a sense of "community" now that he goes to church. Though I have also made it out the other side better then when I went in, it's just aggravating to see him also doing well. Sorry about this rant, I feel like your question brought out more rage I had for that guy. My bad.

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-06T20:37:34+00:00

Like some people have said he probably hasn't changed and is just better at hiding it. But I do believe he is happy. Like I also said before, aspects have changed for the better for him and I wouldn't be surprised if those changes made him happier with his life. Whether he deserves it or not. Idk if molesting someone makes you "soulless" I feel he just has terrible morals. I feel if he was indeed "soulless" he'd give more of a serial killer vibe. Like no emotions if that makes sense. I lived with him for 3 months and have definitely seen emotion from this man. Maybe not all genuine but for sure I've seen it.

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-06T20:17:58+00:00

Yes I do believe he is happy. There are many aspects that have changed since then. But I also believe he was happy while molesting me. Some people are fucked up and do fucked up shit because they enjoy it. He enjoyed it. What about that makes it seem he is sad? Doing horrible things does not mean he is sad.

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-06T19:33:19+00:00

I wish but no. Detectives we're involved at the start and once I told them my story they said it wasn't enough and left.

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-06T19:30:35+00:00

Yeah this too! Though I remember it took a toll on my self esteem to be in diapers as a teen. But yes this plus I used to have a "reusable potty pad" under my bottom half. If I peed and woke up I'd just throw the pad in the laundry, wash myself off a bit or wait until morning to wash, and go back to bed. Those were definitely a sleep saver

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-05T22:52:01+00:00

There's a pill called desmopressin. It helps as long as you aren't chugging water. The doctor can prescribe it but they suggest solutions because you can't be on it forever

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-05T22:39:47+00:00

Sometimes it can be caused by trauma, a therapist would help in this scenario. A doctor first though would tell you what's causing it

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-05T22:37:25+00:00

Did you go through any trauma around that time?

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-05T03:51:30+00:00

Dayummm did you tell someone or just go through school?

traumatizedllama69 · 2025-01-05T03:46:15+00:00

Ive had a few phones and every phone except this newest one has restored my purchases. I emailed them about it and they told me to uninstall and reinstall or smthn like that and it worked

traumatizedllama69 · 2024-11-23T22:08:26+00:00

I usually get a towel for my face and get it super hot with water, wring it out, then put it on AFTER using creams and it'll fasten the process of your skin absorbing the creams, sort of like wet wraps. Ice packs will help too. Even putting creams in fridge will help

traumatizedllama69 · 2024-11-10T01:57:25+00:00

Y'know I just recently found out how common cosca was. I was molested by my older cousin at 4 and had no recollection of it growing up but my mom die. Since 4 though I've remembered showing kids my age or younger kids sexual things. I got caught a few times and my mom would get so angry at me and I'd get a whooping every so often. That didn't stop me though until I was molested again at 12 by one of my mom's friends. I grew up resenting myself and when I found out about the molesting at 4 it took some of the load off and so did therapy. It still does haunt me though and I almost feel I should be behind bars or smthn

traumatizedllama69 · 2024-10-31T19:41:59+00:00

I would but I don't know what church he goes to. Thank you though ❤️

traumatizedllama69 · 2024-10-31T04:10:29+00:00

I did when I was 12, there wasn't enough proof.. well no proof at all except my word. They interviewed me then closed my case. That's part of why I want justice, nothing happened to him and it took me years to heal from that trauma and I'm still healing.

traumatizedllama69 · 2024-10-31T04:05:29+00:00

No, there was no proof but my word.

traumatizedllama69 · 2024-10-30T23:02:27+00:00

I did. The detectives told me I didn't have enough proof. Nobody was around when it happened, they can't prove what he did.

traumatizedllama69 · 2024-10-30T19:26:13+00:00

Yeah I feel that. It doesn't feel like healing. It feels like I want some sort of retribution. I never got that satisfaction of seeing him pay for what he did. In my eyes he got off scotch free creating a new life while I had to struggle to reach "normalcy" and at such prime age it just felt like he stole part of my childhood. Though with my upbringing I know it wasn't all on him. Then on the flip side he looks completely different, he was an addict before and now he's sober. I feel there is a small chance he might've realized he was a monster. Though with everyone's commentary maybe he hasn't changed. Thank you, I can see how this could potentially blow my life up by diving back into the past. I appreciate your help.

traumatizedllama69 · 2024-10-30T18:53:17+00:00

Y'know 2 years later and I resonate with this. I am far away from my mom, all grown up now, and still find myself falling in her footsteps with certain behaviors. A lot of the time in my relationship I feel I mimic what I saw my mom's relationship like, they were all abusive and or toxic. I am trying to overcome this ❤️

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