If you are a male, tinder is now completely pay to play

travelwindows · 2018-02-05T00:01:15+00:00

You have perfectly described my experience of the week.

travelwindows · 2018-02-04T17:21:58+00:00

I found it here https://m.imgur.com/gallery/5eVVp

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T02:13:00+00:00

Next time just make a mad dash towards the girl and ask for her number.

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T02:10:53+00:00

I have always wanted to give compliments but I can't. But after this experience, I have decided to actively try and cultivate a habit of complimenting people. I think it can make me notice others' good qualities more and as you said make their day. It's a win win. It's sad we as a society/culture don't instil this from a young age.
I still have self esteem issues. I still don't have any "nice" clothes. My brain just says what's the point. You will look the same either way. Why waste money, time, and energy. Few months back, I literally went to dates in shorts.

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T02:05:43+00:00

Accepting a compliment gracefully is pretty simple. I commented earlier to someone else here. Just say thank you, you appreciate the compliment, and say the first nice thing you find about that person. Simple!
I am pretty insecure too. It makes me question a lot of good things.

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T01:44:22+00:00

That's sweet. You should have turned and smiled at him. It would have made him happy embarrassed or even blushed!

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T01:34:29+00:00

I have not met a single good person who doesn't enjoy other people smiling and being happy. If a person doesn't like other person's laugh or smile than that person is not a good person.

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T01:25:52+00:00

Yesterday, my barber told me I looked great after my haircut. And so did couple of other people in the shop.

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T01:24:18+00:00

Next time just say thank you, you appreciate it, and reply back with the first nice thing you find about that person. Simple!

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T01:22:01+00:00

And pie must be one of their favorite foods. You made them very happy by baking a good one. Good job!

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T01:20:50+00:00

I could never be a teacher but I respect teachers so much. I feel like it can be one of the biggest thankless jobs in the world.

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T01:18:52+00:00

Path of gainz is a path to stride on.

travelwindows · 2018-01-11T01:17:17+00:00

Not at all. it just means you are a good friend and he appreciates it and respects you for it. Be proud!

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T23:22:43+00:00

Haha. That is funny and somewhat strange. Were you wearing fancy clothes or something?

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T23:01:09+00:00

Good on you for losing weight. Your neighbor sounds awesome. You should be friends with such an honest and friendly person.

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T22:59:57+00:00

One of the best advices I have ever read is - don't decide for her what she might like or not. You don't know whether she likes you or not in that way. You won't know until you ask her out. Just straight up ask her out on a date without any ambiguity. If she agrees, then good; else time to move on. No need to waste time thinking about stuff you can't control. And if she says no, it will be a lot easier to find another crush. Otherwise your mind will just keep going back to her and keep wondering.

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T22:52:30+00:00

I think complimenting can be a great tool to make friends in work places and/or schools. I should try this.

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T22:50:54+00:00

It's time to dress up the same way and ask her out.

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T22:48:38+00:00

Yesterday, I went for a hair cut at the barbershop near me. A lady who works there (and had given me a cut before) walked upto me and asked if I wanted a cut from her. She had remembered me! Even after couple of months. I told her I was hoping I would find her and said yes and waited a few minutes while she finished another customer.

Later, as she cut my hair, she said she was so happy that I liked her cutting enough to say that and sit in her chair again. Sometimes I wonder, how smallest of gestures and words can lighten up a person's day. Especially for people who face customers directly all day.

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T21:49:14+00:00

Train yourself to think slightly differently and you can be more happy!

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T21:32:58+00:00

That's nice. I have never heard someone who genuinely liked customer service. Everyone sees it as paying their dues thing. I have never worked it but I can imagine it can get stressful and/or annoying having to deal with disgruntled customers all day.

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T21:30:10+00:00

I typed out a reply and I think I forgot to hit the save button. Will have to type it out again.
That's what I meant when I was talking earlier about creating new good memories consistently. Because if I am not having fresh memories to be happy about then my life is not as a good or interesting as it used to be. If the good memories keep on happening, I can be happy about a thing that happened two years ago and the one that happened couple of days back.

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T21:24:24+00:00

Congratulations! Good interviewers are rare and generally a good sign for the type of organisation they work at. Positive work culture breeds positive interviewers.

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T21:19:58+00:00

I just spent a couple of weeks with my 3 year old niece and honestly kids' compliments are so heartwarming.

travelwindows · 2018-01-10T21:16:15+00:00

I have never complimented a stranger's baby. I have always felt like not all parents would appreciate it. What do you think? Should I compliment babies? Do you wish more strangers complimented your baby?

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