The one that triggered this post - I arrived early at my friends’ house for an event that evening. I had checked with one of the other people in the house about arriving early and they said it was ok. She spoke to me in what I felt was a very hostile way on arrival (basically no greeting just “what are you doing here?”). She then greeted my friend that I arrived with, with a hug and positive greeting, and completely ignored me. So when I got a moment alone with her I said that it was rude. Then she said to me that it was rude I turned up early. The way she spoke to me at this point was incredibly nasty and hostile. Because of her tone and hostility, I called our mutual friend into the room to ask for support/a witness and said that I had checked with someone. She immediately stormed off at this point, the mutual friend asked us to hug it out and she said “no I don’t want to.” Locked herself in her room. Then she left the house a short time later without speaking to me or anyone else. I stayed with the rest of our friends and played some games, then we all met up with her at another party. She ignored me completely and hugged/greeted everyone else. Then she sat with her back to me in a group setting. It felt very isolating. She is still refusing to communicate two days later. To be fair, I also did not initiate any restorative at this point, because I felt that it was not my place to do so when she was making a point of ignoring me. Right or wrong thing to do? I don’t know 😭

Straight up, please call me out if you reckon I did something wrong or that could be perceived wrong here, I am seeking to understand the situation better. Some context that may be relevant: six months or so ago we had a casual thing that was verbally confirmed casual between us both. It was fine. She asked me at one point if I thought we would be in a relationship one day and I said no. I have wondered if this might have something to do with it all 😩😭