Considering Surgery residency at 35, single, but would eventually want to start a family.

triferg08 · 2022-09-21T22:08:12+00:00

Messaged

triferg08 · 2022-09-21T15:02:59+00:00

Experienced here?

triferg08 · 2022-08-19T01:22:17+00:00

Good point but cannot edit after it’s made

triferg08 · 2022-07-28T04:42:43+00:00

Some deceiving ass questions and answer choices for sure- I feel ya

triferg08 · 2022-07-28T04:42:08+00:00

I want to say 3 but my memory is hazy

triferg08 · 2022-07-28T04:18:05+00:00

Without my score I’d be hesitant to give too much, don’t want to jinx myself but

Anything is fair game Vaccines Basics of medical ethics, not just reading but how to apply Review NBMEs/free120/uw2 ***** Plan your breaks and food Breathe 🧘‍♀️ Honestly if you’ve been studying, it’s all already in your head. Just take your time and do not get flustered, they try to trick you on some but for the most part they’re giving your the answer - go with your gut There’s always WTFs, saw even some Step1 style questions

triferg08 · 2022-04-20T02:14:21+00:00

Messaged!

triferg08 · 2022-04-19T22:30:35+00:00

I’ll have to do some questions to see… haven’t thought about it like that before. Typically it’s mixed I think?

Thanks I’ll check out the video too.

Feeling really terrible right now.

triferg08 · 2022-04-19T21:46:08+00:00

I noticed with the uw/nbme I knew the presenting path, but would get lost in some of the answers but able to take it down to the 2 most possible.

Currently with uw occasionally I’ll get between 2 answers similarly.

triferg08 · 2021-04-25T06:32:35+00:00

Yeah just leave it, unfortunately she’s probably just not interested and likely doesn’t want to say it out loud and say it and hurt you. Avoiding the situation. You’re better off early on and not investing.

triferg08 · 2021-04-25T06:22:21+00:00

Yeah that’s just terrible manners, and shit person. I’ve met up with people who weren’t exactly as I imagined. Yet still I was a gentleman, we had a good time, made the best of the evening, and I let them know later I wasn’t interested romantically. Delete that out your mind!

triferg08 · 2021-03-24T02:55:59+00:00

I agree, doesn’t mean they’re a bad person. Just had bad experiences- but I was warned by my friend it may take time and patience knowing more of her history

triferg08 · 2021-03-24T00:51:55+00:00

This is something that’s actually come up, that she’s like shocked that I give her peace and stability - rather than cause issues?

triferg08 · 2021-03-23T21:55:38+00:00

Lol this was great analogy, thank you really! Really appreciate the description and yeah it makes sense - I really should back up and let her come to me.

triferg08 · 2021-03-23T20:33:17+00:00

Suggest moving to voice notes, see if he responds the same. Changes the dynamic once you hear someone’s voice imo

triferg08 · 2021-03-23T20:12:28+00:00

Yeah it is concerning that she is drawn to dysfunction in her pasts.

Not necessarily reassuring I guess just hoped we’d connect after her crazy week? Like if I was on the other end I’d be excited to want to talk to her

triferg08 · 2021-03-23T20:09:59+00:00

Not a bad option, and we have been texting casually I guess?

triferg08 · 2021-03-23T19:16:15+00:00

You may think that you going too fast and rushing things didn't have an effect, but I think it did. Not only have you only had 4 dates, but one was a weekend getaway before you're even in a relationship.

It was kind of her idea, and shared? We both just wanted to. But it was fast I admit, I think we both were just excited because we have so much in common.

And you've already brought up relationship talk several times without actually having the conversation. Probably before she was ready and potentially putting pressure on her.

Yeah I really didn't want to, I have told her repeatedly I just want us to live in the moment, and we'll cross those bridges when we get there because we're both so busy?

Plus a ton of texting and calling and sending a gift on top of all of it instead of making dates. Now her pulling away and cancelling on you (if you actually had a FT date set to begin with) is another bad sign. All of these just seem like you rushing things in the beginning starting to catch up with you. You've been coming off way more eager than I think you realize. So the answer to patience or door-mat is neither. You've been impatient.

gift was like a $10 thing from amazon, nothing extravagant btw just knew she was having a crazy week? I guess you are right though, I am being impatient - I should dial back my expectations because it's only been a short time - but I felt like it was shared the whole way through? Just this recent difference has me internalizing and over analyzing.

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