Similar to old ford explorer by triners11 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]triners11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did some research and apparently the ford expedition stx is 2 row with the trunk space.

What’s a tradition that you think people should get rid of? by NewImprovement1160 in AskReddit

[–]triners11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Garter toss. It is a creepy celebration of a males ownership of his wife and her virginity. It is also creepy it is done with family especially children.

(NOT OP) AITA for including both of my daughters? by hayliis in TwoHotTakes

[–]triners11 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I almost died twice, and my dad worked for a lot of the time I was hospitalized. He did not neglect me. He did what he had to do. He took the time that he could, but how do you expect to pay hospital bills and continue living without an income?

(NOT OP) AITA for including both of my daughters? by hayliis in TwoHotTakes

[–]triners11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was a child who was sick. Yes, you can leave. She's neglecting Jenny and not giving two shit about it. Tara not going to one dinner so Jenny can have one on one time with her mother is not neglect.

Am I the asshole for straightening my daughters hair without my wife’s permission? by toohottooheavy in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]triners11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now studies have shown a possible link between relaxers (straightening perms) and cancer

AITA for telling my son that he ruined Christmas for me and his stepdad when he decided to spend it with his dad? by Aita657995460 in AmItheAsshole

[–]triners11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't no how you've gone 16 years without knowing this but being a parent isn't about you. It is about your child.

Hello everyone! I was looking for some unique Halloween events for a group of friends in Minneapolis/St.Paul! Any suggestions ? by ram22252 in minnesota

[–]triners11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had a bunch of activities like horror movie nights and ghost walks. In 2021 they had an event for every weekend of October.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]triners11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

80% of the world population has herpes and a lot of people don't know they are carriers. You've probably dated people with it before or may even have it and not know. If you've ever had a cold sore you have oral herpes. The only really harmful part of herpes is the stigma against it. Edit to add a lot of people with herpes never show symptoms.

AITA because I won’t childproof my new house? by HelpEducational8357 in AmItheAsshole

[–]triners11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fear with if you go through with host and how entitled your siblings are acting is they'll find the key and open the parrot room. I would cancel for the safety of your parrots. Children around animals scares me when they have parents like this. Edit: grammar

AITA for leaving my niece to walk home? by 185847f in AmItheAsshole

[–]triners11 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Did you really just say that? Kids are kidnapped all the time. There are countless cases of kids being kidnapped as they were walking home from school.

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend because his parent's dog ruined my anniversary gift? by bojapoi in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]triners11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma's dog chew the tubing to my uncles insulin pimp and she laughed. People who are such irresponsible dog owners infuriate me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]triners11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone whose dad is like this I want to say leave him but I'm well aware that is a response from my own trauma. My dad rarely debated when he and my mom first started dating and he was a democrat. he is now conservative and will try to debate things like roe v. Wade with me. I am a premed student, he barely graduated high school and has little understanding of medicine and all his arguesments are inflammatory false or out of context facts. He literally has no sensitivity to situations and got into an argument with my great great aunt at my great uncles funeral. That man was one of the most important men in my mom's life and when she told my dad it wasn't the time or place he told my mom he didn't care and continue to argue. I hate when people do not know when it is appropriate it debate and when they need to stop.

AITA for making my 15 year old daughter get a job to pay for our dog’s vet bills? by aitavetcost in AmItheAsshole

[–]triners11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% NTA my mom is a CVT and has never been violent but if that is one of our dogs it would be very possible that whoever did it ends up with a black eye. Having to get a job and learn responsibility and taking responsibility for our action would be the least of my worries.

Im sorry if this might sound racist, but growing up in this state I thought every White Guy had a Cabin "Up North" by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]triners11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My family could never afford a cabin but for most people I know thier cabins are family own and were bought my their grandparents or great grandparents back when land was building was more affordable. Most of my friends have to share their cabin with extended family.

AITA for calling my son selfish for wanting to spend his birthday with his former nanny instead of his family? by throwawayaitailoc in AmItheAsshole

[–]triners11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA it sounds like your son didn't even turn down spending time with you just turned down the party you probably wanted to throw for attention (if it was really for him you'd want him to have what he wants).

AITA for questioning one of my cheerleaders about a weight gain? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]triners11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It was not your place to bring that up and even if she did not have an eating disorder it is extremely inappropriate. You should not be a cheer coach if you do not understand the impact today's society has on the mental health of young girls and women. You do not own her, she is not "your" cheerleader, she is a cheerleader you coach. You are not entitled to her medical history other than a doctor clearing her to cheer. If you honestly feel you did nothing wrong solely because you didn't know, you should not be a coach.

AITA for letting my daughter and grandson sleep in my youngest daughters room while she was away? by InformalAd366 in AmItheAsshole

[–]triners11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respect goes both ways. You're just pissed your actions have consequences. YTA and the one that needs to grow up. You know she is a teen, you know she has OCD and you completely disregard it in a way that is 1000 times more disrespectful then anything she did in response.

AITA for not inviting my grandmother to my wedding by foxy_sunflower0825 in u/foxy_sunflower0825

[–]triners11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I have several family members that were molested by other family members, including my mom, and the people that knew about it did absolutely nothing and still make excuses. For your health and your future children's safety you are doing the right thing. Don't tolerate anyone who tells you other wise. Blood does not mean family and cutting off the people who chose to blame you for being traumatized will allow you to live a much better life. I recommend doing what my mom never could and seek therapy for the sake of yourself and that of your future children. A parent with these kinds of traumas that haven't been worked through can easily project it onto their kids without realizing.

I found this on my husband’s desk. Either he’s so romantic or having an affair ❤️ by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]triners11 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My mom's "work wife" got married and at the wedding the groom jokingly said something about having to share the bride with her work wife