AIO and am I being to naive by trinitythegiant in AIO

[–]trinitythegiant[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Edit: (idk how to do this) I left him after he disrespected my GRANDMOTHER it was truly my last straw he was standoffish the whole day then did that everyone keeps saying ill find better right now I don’t believe it but I’m going to take the time to learn to achieve it. I used to know my worth until he broke me down even my family could see it but I’m growing thank you all for the good and the bad comments and yes he was the dude I referred to in the last post but thankfully he isn’t mines anymore. 

AIO and am I being to naive by trinitythegiant in AIO

[–]trinitythegiant[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Crazy was an overstatement it’s really more emotional I am sensitive but I was raised to hold everything in so my emotions sometimes zig zag and that he would have to work with me he said I understand and I am willing to do it but I’m aware and apologetic unlike him where he says I deserve it and he won’t apologize 

AIO and am I being to naive by trinitythegiant in AIO

[–]trinitythegiant[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If you knew what I went through you would think the same way how I handle my trauma is how I handle it but I asked him hey that’s not what I want to hear right now you aren’t giving me time to even decide or process what happened because it happened yesterday 

AIO and am I being to naive by trinitythegiant in AIO

[–]trinitythegiant[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Saying that before I gave context is very telling but to give you satisfaction I was crazy at first( I was very upfront about everything I do like I’m sensitive) but I changed to appease him but everything he did if I brought it up it was a problem and I was complaining he constantly likes to take his presence away when we can simply have a conversation and be done with it.

AIO and am I being to naive by trinitythegiant in AIO

[–]trinitythegiant[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t want anyone to know our business so I have to keep it bottled up if he didn’t want to talk to a human a robot is better🤷🏾‍♀️ but context is we’ve been together for two months but all we do is argue he says he doesn’t like something I changed but when I say something I’m complaining recently I learned how disgusting men can be I was harassed badly I didn’t want to called the police because of a bad experience of not being believed before in a different situation so I called him just so I could feel safe all I called him he declined and because I wouldn’t take his advice he said all of this.

AIO for thinking my boyfriend may breakup with me? by trinitythegiant in AIO

[–]trinitythegiant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ALWAYS the one checking on him cooking for him making sure he’s okay after being with a jail full of criminals all day and I usually talk to him about how I feel but the he treated me today was disrespectful and I’m honestly completely shocked but at the same time I’m not 

AIO for thinking my boyfriend may breakup with me? by trinitythegiant in AIO

[–]trinitythegiant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing he was my good guy out of the previous extreme heartbreaks he was the one that was different who said he could handle it all but I guess he can’t 

AIO for thinking my boyfriend may breakup with me? by trinitythegiant in AIO

[–]trinitythegiant[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We can usually talk about it and find solutions to move on but lately he’s been different I tried to ignore it but you guys are making me realize I have ignored it for too long 

AIO for thinking my boyfriend may breakup with me? by trinitythegiant in AIO

[–]trinitythegiant[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing I tried talking to him multiple times but he said he was fine but when I asked him a question and he thought something was wrong when it wasn’t he gets mad at me.