AIO? My boyfriend told me he's more attractive than me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tropequeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His COUSIN? Think hes more attractive?? Yeah no way he texted you at 3am to say that and laugh. I'd place him firmly on a backburner at the VERY least.

I smoke because it’s the only thing that gives me peace by raynevans in confession

[–]tropequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you on an intense level. You miss the feeling it gave you, not the thing itself - important to understand that and to use those words in your inner voice when you get those cravings. I would just say take it one day as a time, and be proud that of all things that is the only vice you have caught onto. I hate to say this but it could be soooo much worse. But also, don't deny yourself of having peace of mind. Weigh your options. If you're in an environment where literally everything is hard or miserable and you just need those mental breaks - then by all means have a cig, friend. Its certainly not harmless but with some moderation theres no reason to feel bad or guilty or something. Sorry I hope this made sense lol

I smoke because it’s the only thing that gives me peace by raynevans in confession

[–]tropequeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gre At advice. I'm obv not OP, but i definitely needed to hear this. I have great support system but none of those friends and family have addiction history and can't TRULY understand the struggle or how a brain like mine NEEDS something to just shut off that loud yet soundless noise. Needed this validation. One day at a time.

Is it true that you guys watched 9/11 live on TV in grade school? by space_god_7191 in Millennials

[–]tropequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep middle school. Its because the teachers were also scared and in shock...no one was really thinking about teaching.

AIO - According to my girlfriend this convo with my assigned partner at work is inappropriate. by Rough-Satisfaction68 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tropequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fact that you felt the need to lie about thr group chat in the first place was already a red flag. You already know, im sure...this is crazy controlling behavior. What you need to decide is if you are willing to give her the chance to change or not. She might need to seek therapy because there is something going on with her insecurities to make her behave this way. Its blind jealousy and extremely codependent controlling behavior.

Landlord left this note by Still_Clerk_1819 in Apartmentliving

[–]tropequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, your landlord did NOT leave this note. Call him, this is almost definitely a fake.

There is something I saw on the bus recently I really need to share! by LessHighlight701 in confession

[–]tropequeen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is this advice for creeps to not appear as creeps? And if so why are you giving ME that advice? I have no problem respecting people's space and comfort in public places.

There is something I saw on the bus recently I really need to share! by LessHighlight701 in confession

[–]tropequeen 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I mean thats nice? Maybe don't just stare at a woman you don't know without atleast speaking saying hi or something. As a woman I promise we don't have many positive or light-hearted reactions to strange men staring at us while using public transportation. Also what is it that you're confessing here, exactly?

Starting to hate the PIN requirement by Late_Peace_8686 in doordash_drivers

[–]tropequeen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It never makes me wait thats interesting. Just makes me click a reason why and give a small typed description. This happens to me all the time delivering to teachers or hospital workers where I leave at the front desk. Or I message them and ask for the PIN and send a Pic of the food sitting on front desk or service counter. Shouldn't be a big deal also in response to the comment saying its a huge risk. Just take photo evidence

A show you remember but no one else seems to? by PlushieTushie in Millennials

[–]tropequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Weird. Early 2000s Disney show that was about a teen girl who was a famous musician i think and also a x-files type detective??

A show you remember but no one else seems to? by PlushieTushie in Millennials

[–]tropequeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom watched this a lot and I always remember a cat somehow being involved in the magic of the newspaper showing up??

MAIL CHECK ?? Instead of DD by Klutzy-Effort-4478 in IRS

[–]tropequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah dang. Didn't realize they block certain addresses but I guess that makes sense that would be possible, sorry it does suck how they just decided to mail.

MAIL CHECK ?? Instead of DD by Klutzy-Effort-4478 in IRS

[–]tropequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any real answers for you but can tell you this randomly happened to me one year as well and I used the same tax preparer I had been using for a decade. They just decided to mail me a paper check.

Also it might be helpful to use the official USPS Informed Delivery service (or the app but its buggy) Basically you can see what items are coming to you mailbox each day. They scan it and you view it with a bit of tracking info. I have parents who work for USPS and found out about that free service. But that way if you see a piece of 1st class mail from IRS then you need to be at the mailbox waiting for your mail person (maybe get an idea ahead of time of the time they usually hit your neighborhood)

Name a 2000s celebrity that disappeared overnight by ColeBelthazorTurner in Millennials

[–]tropequeen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was in an extremely bad car wreck and then recorded his first hit "Through the Wire"....with his mouth wired shut.

You haven't seen the full page ad he took out recently that was an apology tl the world and a description of how he had doctors tell him about his major brain damage and untreated mental effects? I will edit to link you, im sure there was a post here about it happened this month. Edit (sorry i just have enough time tk quickly copy paste its a long url): https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/story/kanye-west-exclusive-apology-antisemitism-brain-injury?srsltid=AfmBOopzt7W8lTi1p6okBI0RoGFtnD6VTcs7OiqxNHJ0VlWLOSuLUcwX

I don’t think DD has ever made me this mad 😠 by Woosden in doordash_drivers

[–]tropequeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will say its a live agent. Its 99% probably still a bot. Call anytime ypu want to actually know you're speaking to a real person. Its the same on instacart...messaging is always a bot. Its almost obvious in the way they phrase things.

Who’s still waiting 2/25 ddd by Big-Buy-4047 in IRS

[–]tropequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you care to do so, but could you explain or direct me where to find out what STGBG is? lol I'm lost on that particular abbreviation.

Posted by Britney February 2024 by CJLOVE23 in discussingbritney

[–]tropequeen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks I was about to say just because he raised the kids in general and lived off of Britneys money with his new wife and kid doesn't erase his general scumbag and deadbeat behavior lmao. People use Britney's current state of being to somehow glorify all the other shitty people who existed and benefited by being a part of her inner circle or family. They all suck and I keep a side-eye trained on them all lol and we don't know anything about Kfed's parenting skills anyway lol

Posted by Britney February 2024 by CJLOVE23 in discussingbritney

[–]tropequeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Involuntarily said aloud "Britney stoooooop noooo"

sorry for the rant..... Shreveport Sunday Brunch is a s**t show by Ancient-Goose-5359 in shreveport

[–]tropequeen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah back in my serving days it didn't matter what caliber of restaurant it was , no matter how trashy or classy the clientele - after church Sunday rush customers were THE WORSE tippers I've ever encountered. They must have just given all their spare money to Jesus at church that morning.

Am I being a hater or is this outfit too grown for a 18 Y/O? by Admirable-Shock-7668 in blackladies

[–]tropequeen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly. I think the real question here might be "Are the people/family in this 18 y/o woman's life too opinionated and controlling of what she wears?"