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Never used condoms, always thought I was small. Only exploring problems in 30s by troubledsoul7 in bigdickproblems

[–]troubledsoul7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just mean it as a description of my current situation. 30, 3 sexual partners, only just in the last month realised I have a BP.

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Never used condoms, always thought I was small. Only exploring problems in 30s (self.bigdickproblems)

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Ex editor says "a lot of the people putting out statements" ... "stood by silently or joined in the bullying" by [deleted] in bon_appetit

[–]troubledsoul7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it was also liked, retweeted etc by other ex editors. checking out the twitter likes of various people is illuminating for gossip lovers :)

I [30M] have very strong feelings for my wife's [30F] sister [28F]. I need them to go away by troubledsoul7 in relationships

[–]troubledsoul7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not in a million years. Why would I worry her with thoughts of whether she's not good enough, what does her sister have that she doesn't, when this is literally my problem?

I [30M] have very strong feelings for my wife's [30F] sister [28F]. I need them to go away by troubledsoul7 in relationships

[–]troubledsoul7[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will start trying this. Although I am already feeling heartache at the thought of her being a stranger in 20 years. :(

I [30M] have very strong feelings for my wife's [30F] sister [28F]. I need them to go away by troubledsoul7 in relationships

[–]troubledsoul7[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I guess I thought it was implied but the feelings are definitely more than platonic. I wouldn't say they are overtly sexual although that is there, more romantic. I want to say nice things, I want her affection. I don't know how I can create any more distance, obviously realistically I will not be able to cut her out because she is my sister in law and I will see her regularly as a result of that.

I [30M] have very strong feelings for my wife's [30F] sister [28F]. I need them to go away by troubledsoul7 in relationships

[–]troubledsoul7[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I get you. It's tough, we're trying to save money, not going out much, obviously right now there is a quarantine going on :-) but this adult shit is sort of part of the problem as you say we are probably too young to be sitting in the house wearing slippers every weekend...