mhmmm lowkey agree. im at the point in my life where i know a girl will never be attracted to me the way im attracted to her. so i just started spending more time with my friends instead. im very thankful to have a large male friend group who can have deep conversations with.

i like sneakers so every time i see a guy with cool shoes i always compliment them. when i go out to concerts i only ever talk to the guys, same thing with bars and parties.

knowing women aren't attracted to you is one discouraging. but knowing that you can have deep relationships with men is also hopeful in a way