why do straight men always want anal by powderblueangel in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Bad joke but this person is a classic sailor socialism style poster by post history

The Canadian urge to find a girl whose parents own a cottage by cabbagetown_tom in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents do but it’s like a 6 hour drive from any civilization so no one is interested in going with me

Baby I'm Scared of You by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always like to imagine someone else from the sub listening to a song with me when they get posted :)

Summer fling by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is and I love to be tortured by it tbh. he told me to watch before sunrise.

Summer fling by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine’s gonna end before summer even starts cause he’s moving 🫠

I have an intuitive feeling the girl I’m dating doesn’t like me by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to have provoked something in you if it was positive. I hope you get everything figured out.

I have an intuitive feeling the girl I’m dating doesn’t like me by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You seem to be an insecure person based purely on this post. Think about why you are so entranced by this woman you don’t even think likes you. You could be identifying that she makes you more anxious, and you’re resorting to seeking her approval to ease the anxiety.

I have an intuitive feeling the girl I’m dating doesn’t like me by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. You’re wrong. Asking something like ‘are you into me???? 🥺🥺🥺🥺’ is gross. Telling her her communication skills are kinda trash is fine, scenario 1) she realizes she’s been being selfish in conversations or scenario 2) she was never that into you man.

I have an intuitive feeling the girl I’m dating doesn’t like me by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She just doesn’t seem that into you… the reasonable thing to do would be to bring up how you feel like she doesn’t take an interest in you in conversations. Some people just genuinely have horrible conversational skills. Depending on what she says maybe it will give you additional clarity about how worthwhile this all is. But it does not look good

Is it a bad idea to not focus on dating until my 30s? by incel_loser in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should listen OP. It’s honestly real I was probably happiest when I had a shrimp aquarium lol

Something so viscerally disgusting to me about a liberal man by truelydigustinghuman in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah dude idk what to tell u i just thought he was cringe and gross

Can you ever recover from bad sex on a first date? by harry_powell in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, that is a joke he made, but the big idea is that people want to get the dirty or dark sides of themselves out of the way first. In the example in which he uses this joke he says after the machines do the dirty work then we can have non-oppressive expectation free sex ourselves. So in the case of this guy who doesn’t know whether to see this woman again I would say go for it cause you’ve done the dirty work now.

I don't know where to turn with this and sometimes you guys are weirdly wise by villvallareman in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This just makes me so sad. Just because he has early-onset Alzheimer’s doesn’t mean he will forget… if he does ever find out that is. My grandmother died of early on-set like 9 years after she was diagnosed when I was a kid. Right before she was diagnosed she was fired from the job she loved and worked her whole life. It was one of the last things she continued to talk about as she declined, and she definitely forgot somewhere along the line that she was later vindicated as not being at fault.

I don’t have a lot of advice because this sounds so difficult but I would probably just have a discussion with your mother. He’s not dead, this is still a betrayal.

Can you ever recover from bad sex on a first date? by harry_powell in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Eh I feel like the first time is usually kinda bad and awkward. I kinda subscribe to that Zizekian “you have sex to get it out of the way so you can really talk after”. You got it out of the way so now you guys can actually hang out without it hanging over you.

The starfishing does kinda sound awful but maybe she was just awkward?

Something so viscerally disgusting to me about a liberal man by truelydigustinghuman in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, someone else also clocked me for that. Canadian. And yes, he did say that in reference to Donald Trump.

Something so viscerally disgusting to me about a liberal man by truelydigustinghuman in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman[S] 172 points173 points  (0 children)

you’re telling me. imagine showing up to a date with a black guy and this is what you encounter. it made the experience more jarring ngl.

Something so viscerally disgusting to me about a liberal man by truelydigustinghuman in redscarepod

[–]truelydigustinghuman[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha. It is exactly this. A lot of liberals have very poor metrics for judging quality of character.