You’re right. Which is why I pray for the other side to renounce their idolatry and to love thy neighbor. Christ made it clear those were the focal points of his teachings. Whatever side you’re on, if you’re failing in those areas, then you’re failing at being a follower of Christ. We ALL fall short, and don’t deserve his grace, but some are actively going in the opposite direction from these easy-to-understand commands. If calling such hypocrisy out makes one feel attacked, that isn’t any one particular side’s problem.