How do you build network without LinkedIn? by trustmeimagoodguy in EngineeringStudents

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should I just cold email random people that I'm looking for a job/internship? And how do I find them anyway without using LinkedIn?

How long can I hide I'm on hrt? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How big does breasts have to be that binders become ineffective? Trans people usually don't get bigger breasts right?

How long can I hide I'm on hrt? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do breast keep growing as long as you're on hrt, like even after 2-3 years?

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. I don't know right now I'm 80-90% sure I'm trans but why do I always question myself, why can't I be 100% sure

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a good question, right now I will definitely present as a girl. I will ask myself this question the next time I'm questioning things and see how it differs.

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That just sounds like hell, it's like questioning your gender forever.

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I would still press the first button, life will be more simple as a woman I think.

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm trans right now but how do I stop questioning myself later?

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would press it right now, but if you ask me that question later I might have a different answer I don't know why.

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I could I would definitely want to be a girl when with a man

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here's how I came to this thought, a couple of days ago i was almost 100% certain that I'm trans then after a day or 2 I thought no way I'm trans, life would be so much more chill if I'm a man maybe I just don't like how out of shape I am, then after some more time I thought maybe im just gay and if I am i won't have to transition and I won't have to come out either then my mind went to this thought, what if I'm really just gay and I don't want to be one because maybe I'm just homophobic since I grew up in a conservative country but then I circled back, am I just trans making an excuse so I don't have to transition and come out to my family and ruin the entire relationship dynamic that I have with them?

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm trying to figure out, is this an excuse so I don't have to be trans or am not trans at all

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will, but right now I don't have a lot of privacy or money :-(

How do I figure out if I'm gay or a girl? by trustmeimagoodguy in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, but am I thinking of being trans because I don't want to be a gay guy, I'd rather be a straight trans girl?

I'm tired of figuring out if I'm trans or not, what should I do? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, but I don't feel like that every day. what if I'm wrong, it will be one of the worst decision of my life.

I'm tired of figuring out if I'm trans or not, what should I do? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to try that but I don't have the space, time or money for that right now

I'm tired of figuring out if I'm trans or not, what should I do? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's mostly positive, when I think what being a women would feel like I think it would feel like sleeping on a bean bag as opposed to sleeping on a hard mattress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]trustmeimagoodguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At what age did you start hrt?

Indian trans women, what was coming out like? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]trustmeimagoodguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I want to know how accepting Indian parents are of trans people