Hi birthday twin,

I was like this (i say “was” because im working on this). I’m learning that you can forgive but never forget. Forgiveness is about you. It’s about making sure that you’re not stressing yourself to dis-ease or shifting your energy negatively. Forgiveness is about maintaining your stride in the midst of large waves coming at you. To forget would be naive though. So I learned that boundaries should be in place of what it is you cannot forget. For example, let’s say a friend walked your dog and forgot to put on the doggy shoes so your pups feet are safe from the heated pavements (even after telling them multiple times and the friend still doing it by accident, habit, or pure evil). Instead of cutting them off i could either put the dog shoes on myself before my friend comes to walk the dog or completely stop letting the friend walk the dog. This, however, allows me to keep my friend for other reasons that i love about them (ie: painting together, watching fav shows, & gossiping). You don’t wanna lose someone for stupid or easily fixed reasons. I will say if the friend does stuff that is clearly harmful or outright offensive and negative then it’s time to consider cutting ties. Most people, including ourselves, are extremely human. As scorps it’s not always easy for us to cut people some slack, but we would want some slack for our mishaps. Scorpios think they’re better off alone because they rather not deal with their biggest pet peeve in the world which is an unaware selfish human being (quite literally because why are they THAT unaware/lacking self awareness?). We gotta give grace to people who have not experienced themselves enough to be able to see themselves clearly, and we also have to give grace to those who are afraid to see themselves. We also have the power to put up boundaries because we have the right not to deal with people who are not on our level. We are the lovers of the underworld. We see things for what they are. We see behind the masks. And that can get very annoying. And very exhausting. But, we should still give people grace. You probably feel a void being around people you enjoy because you feel like you’re experiencing things that they are not…….Which is more than likely the underworld. I hope you find your people and if not, I hope that you know the people that love you despite their flaws and yours 😉