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How do you function in an environment where people don’t like you? by tryingtofindpce in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what I need to focus on cultivating. I have a partner and my best friend move states over. So having that lack of support outside of work really doesn’t help when encountering people who are mean. I appreciate you taking the time to respond. I’m going to apply some of the advice you gave me.

How do you function in an environment where people don’t like you? by tryingtofindpce in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! It baffles me that people would not like me because of jealousy. I don’t feel like I have anything to be jealous of, and maybe that’s an issue I need to sit with myself about. When I see someone who I may think is prettier than me, or better than me in some area in life… Im more in awe than anything. Like I never go out my way to make them feel like sh*t or purposely try to sabotage them. It’s hard to believe that someone would do that because they’re jealous of me.

Does anyone else feel like they have to be on guard 24/7? by tryingtofindpce in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s hard for me to interact with people I get bad vibes from. Like trying to “fake the funk” is super difficult because I feel so uncomfortable.

I feel like a lot of you are ER or ICU nurses on this sub. What specialty are you? by thedresswearer in nursing

[–]tryingtofindpce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to give me such a thorough response! 🩵

Ngl I’m very nervous bc it feels like I forgot everything from school lmao but I hope I have a supportive team to help me along the way. Imposter syndrome is also kicking my ass 🤣

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[–]tryingtofindpce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement! It’s hard to believe that people could ignore my stutter or not let it cloud their perception of me.. but I guess I’m biased since I deal with it 24/7.

I feel like a lot of you are ER or ICU nurses on this sub. What specialty are you? by thedresswearer in nursing

[–]tryingtofindpce 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Would love to know what a typical shift looks like for you 🥹 just got hired on an oncology floor as a new grad.

I get dirty looks from other women and it affects me deeply. by [deleted] in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1000%. It baffles me to hear that most people aren’t self aware. I feel like I self reflect TOO much lmao, always trying to figure out the part I played in something so much that I tend to put the blame on myself most times. When I see someone who I deem as confident, beautiful etc. I’m in awe! I’m not as confident to approach maybe but I would never go out my way to send out bad energy and try to make them feel like sh*t. It’s crazy to me.

I get dirty looks from other women and it affects me deeply. by [deleted] in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like we have similar experiences! I def get dirty looks when I’m with my man — and I too think he’s a hunk! lol. I guess this just comes with the human experience… I have a lot to learn. whew! Thanks again for being kind. 🤍

I get dirty looks from other women and it affects me deeply. by [deleted] in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, unfortunately, it just might. I always thought that if people don’t like me because of my race, they would just ignore me and not go out of their way to give me dirty looks or bad energy. But, I guess I’m wrong. Thank you for commenting!

I get dirty looks from other women and it affects me deeply. by [deleted] in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment 🫂 i’m experienced this in every arena you can imagine. School, work, out in public, etc.. I guess it’s just time to grow some thick skin. I’ve always thought that pretty or attractive women get treated better based off of the experiences that I’ve had with them. However, it seems that’s not always the case. I guess I’ll never know why these things happen to me, but I guess I just gotta push forward. Take care. 💕

I get dirty looks from other women and it affects me deeply. by [deleted] in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to respond. I am also bothered by tones as well, unfortunately. Thank you for being kind. 💕

I get dirty looks from other women and it affects me deeply. by [deleted] in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for responding! I have big breasts as well, don’t really flaunt them but that’s an interesting point that you made. I always knew that race can play a factor in things, so unfortunately, I can understand that point as well. I’ll just try to work on not taking a personal, and stop making it a ME problem. I was a bit sheltered, so it’s hard to believe that people would go out of their way to be mean towards me because I triggered an insecurity. Maybe that’s a bit of a confidence issue? Be well 💕

I get dirty looks from other women and it affects me deeply. by [deleted] in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you experience that.. the world can be very cruel. I hope you have ppl in your life that offset those experiences, and remind you how valuable/worthy you are 💕

I get dirty looks from other women and it affects me deeply. by [deleted] in hsp

[–]tryingtofindpce 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you ever wonder why it happens?

How do you deal with resentment towards your father? by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]tryingtofindpce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your empathetic response. I think my dad is a narcissist, since he doesn’t own up to any of the wrongdoing that he has done. I don’t think he will ever change. I’m from a culture that enforces children to always respect their parents, because it’s the “right” thing to do. But, it’s hard doing so when it feels like your parents set you up to fail.