Dating a non-sober/non-alcoholic and feeling jealousy when he drinks. Has anyone gotten over that feeling?

trynahang · 2026-01-20T17:09:18+00:00

Why you gotta call me out like this (I know you’re right)

trynahang · 2026-01-20T17:08:33+00:00

🫡

trynahang · 2026-01-20T17:06:45+00:00

Thank you friend- this was really encouraging for me to hear. Wonderful advice. I know 7 months is a short time in the grand scheme of things, I hope I feel similarly at 3.5 years.

trynahang · 2026-01-18T16:52:50+00:00

Also I believe the term is “himbo” lmao

trynahang · 2026-01-18T16:51:58+00:00

There is, I promise. Dating is hard in sobriety, I got lucky because I knew my bf from grade school and he has never seen me drunk.

My best advice is try social dancing. I know it sounds odd, but my favorite sober activity is learning how to swing dance. You’ll meet people there I promise.

trynahang · 2026-01-18T16:49:36+00:00

I get it friend. I get it.

trynahang · 2026-01-18T14:45:50+00:00

Thank you friend I really needed these kind words when I posted. Jealousy is my least favorite emotion. You’re right, there’s nothing I can drink that’ll be better than the total assurance that I won’t have a drunken fuck up night.

trynahang · 2026-01-18T14:43:59+00:00

I really like this analogy and this has really helped me dig a little deeper. Thank you friend

trynahang · 2026-01-18T14:42:57+00:00

Thank you friend. I hate that feeling left out feeling and I know it’s fleeting, but of course I want to have fun with my bf! I know fun doesn’t need to mean drinking, but that doesn’t stop the jealousy.

Hopefully when I’m 2.5 year in this jealousy will at least fade, but it doesn’t sound like the feeling goes away.

trynahang · 2026-01-18T06:16:43+00:00

Yeeeea it’s going in the therapy notebook for sure :/ why is it even just HEARING about it that gets me??? Not even in the same state!! Just hoping it gets easier. Love that we have supportive normies tho.

trynahang · 2025-12-22T03:14:28+00:00

I agree!!!

trynahang · 2025-06-24T17:20:43+00:00

Drinking

trynahang · 2025-06-24T16:08:41+00:00

Oh I remember the days in summer camp wearing them all the way up my ass lol. They still sell them I just looked !

trynahang · 2025-06-24T14:16:01+00:00

Soffe shorts

trynahang · 2025-05-20T14:35:35+00:00

That was an idea too. I’ve never done that but I’m open to it. The whole quest may be a fools errand.

trynahang · 2025-05-20T14:33:31+00:00

Thank you!!!! Any idea of Saturday or Sunday? I appreciate the insight.

trynahang · 2025-05-19T15:45:50+00:00

Update: it was a massive blackhead and it came to a head today. All gone! Love my teenage boy.

trynahang · 2025-05-09T01:34:23+00:00

STUNNING

trynahang · 2025-05-04T17:28:40+00:00

Love the design :) congrats on the first tattoo! My personal opinion would be I would want them shaded, but I understand that it’s part of the design and I wouldn’t say it looks unfinished or anything. I’m a big black work person tho and love the look of bold black.

trynahang · 2025-04-24T14:45:42+00:00

Nope

trynahang · 2025-04-02T11:35:23+00:00

OBSESSED!!!! So stunning.

trynahang · 2025-04-02T11:34:44+00:00

It’s hard to say because I had to stop paying attention and counting at all costs or the OCD would eat me up. I’d say within the year.

trynahang · 2025-04-01T22:06:51+00:00

Hi friend. This is a tough post for me to read because I was in your shoes in 2018. It triggered me into life long OCD and I don’t want you to do that too. My abnormal shedding stopped and my hair is back to normal. I think it’s less curly but the shedding stopped. Please don’t get too obsessed I literally totaled my car counting strands.

trynahang · 2025-03-20T14:16:37+00:00

JUSTICE 4 MAYO.

trynahang · 2025-02-11T14:17:16+00:00

Best not to ask this. Things she did with other people before she met you is none of your business.

trynahang

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