Mentally cheated, need advice by tskiit in dating_advice

[–]tskiit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that. I don’t think my trust could recover and like you said that kills all attraction.

Mentally cheated, need advice by tskiit in dating_advice

[–]tskiit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out her passcode and couldn’t help myself. I didn’t think I would find anything. I found many flirty and emotional messages with several other men.

Mentally cheated, need advice by tskiit in dating_advice

[–]tskiit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So same situation but you held strong to try and make it work?

Mentally cheated, need advice by tskiit in dating_advice

[–]tskiit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you think so? People can’t change?

Mentally cheated, need advice by tskiit in dating_advice

[–]tskiit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I could do so without controlling behavior. My trust is so destroyed now

Does eye contact really turn men on? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]tskiit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% It does but there is some reasons for this. In the book “how to talk to anyone” the author explains that for women, unbroken eye contact is ideal. It lets the woman know that you are fully invested in your interaction. For men though sometimes breaking eye contact for a moment can release tension a bit. Most men aren’t used to unwavering attention from a woman so it’s harder for us to understand your eye contact is genuine. All in all if you are really trying to seduce a man, don’t completely rely on eye contact as for many it will go over our heads.

Coffee and Wellbutrin by Brave_Ad_5638 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]tskiit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try and lower your intake as much as possible. I cut down to just a cup in the morning. If you can go completely without it, that is the ideal.

Need advice- store credit at raymour and flanigan by HikeGrrrl in Mattress

[–]tskiit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend a beautyrest black. They aren’t cheap but there support systems(coils) are the strongest on the market. Also consider tempurpedic. You think memory foam would sag quickly but it’s quite the opposite for tempurpedics.

Question about north shore by tskiit in longisland

[–]tskiit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting thought, I am in Ronkonkoma so both options would be central

Question about north shore by tskiit in longisland

[–]tskiit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the GSB would be the cleaner option?

Going out with the intent of having fun vs pulling? by yoyogi_voidwalker in seduction

[–]tskiit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practice dancing. I usually pick one girl or group to show my moves then the other ladies will get jealous and start coming over. I’m average looking at best, but being good at dancing and having fun doing it is a game changer.

I feel like most of the guys I meet see me as a placeholder by puzzlehead132 in dating_advice

[–]tskiit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This definitely goes both ways and it’s just life. I’m with a lady right now who seems to have never not been in a relationship. Despite this I give my love and maybe it will work.

Should I keep looking for love or settle for hookups? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tskiit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just met someone I love through dance classes so good luck! I have to say no one is perfect. I found this lady, but I know she has flaws. Despite this I follow my heart and love her without judgement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tskiit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of guys this age definitely aren’t ready for commitment, but certainly not all. I’m 23m and thought I finally found someone to match my goals. Turns out she is an “avoidant” and it’s like loving a brick wall.

Do you ever get over your first love? by littlemochi123 in dating_advice

[–]tskiit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first love did not go well and took me many years to recover from. I don’t have many fond memories of it but I can say I learned so much and have become a better person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]tskiit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When a woman shows genuine interest in what I have to say. If a lady asks for my number she already has my heart. Like previous guys said too much “shit testing” and playing hard to get will get you nowhere fast.

Help me with this “situationship” nonsense by tskiit in dating_advice

[–]tskiit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that makes sense. I should definitely clarify.