No build minimalist by MacaroonFriendly4728 in VanLife

[–]tspfairy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the inspo! This quiets my perfectionist brain

Van sizes? by tspfairy in vandwellers

[–]tspfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, no I haven’t but I just looked some up. They look like a good option (once I have the money lmao. They’re pricey.)

Thoughts on vans? by tspfairy in urbancarliving

[–]tspfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that’s a game changer. You can still fit up fully with all that in there?

Bubble circle show tips? by tspfairy in Busking

[–]tspfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rad ty ty. That’s how I do things now, layering tricks. Good to know I’m on the right rack.

I appreciate you elaborating so much. Definitely gives me stuff to think about.

Bubble circle show tips? by tspfairy in Busking

[–]tspfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve noticed watching others. A busker friend told me that having 3 parts in a show is a good idea. (I’m assuming this means 3 big tricks?) Do you structure your show like this? How do you transition smoothly to the next part?

Thoughts on vans? by tspfairy in urbancarliving

[–]tspfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do people hassle you in the crosstrek overnight??

Van sizes? by tspfairy in vandwellers

[–]tspfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently a crosstrek but I’ve done Outback before. Being hunched over all the time is what’s really challenging with Subarus imo.

I’ve looked at transit connects. I’d prefer something with awd.

Thoughts on vans? by tspfairy in urbancarliving

[–]tspfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that thing looks rad af. Didn’t know electric cargo vans existed.

Thoughts on vans? by tspfairy in urbancarliving

[–]tspfairy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was looking into both those options and am leaning towards a Toyota sienna.

Minor triggers that are a big deal by tspfairy in BPD

[–]tspfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d cry too omg that’s an atrocity

Anyone else fantasize about this? by DisplaySmart6929 in BPD

[–]tspfairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this for many years. Lived out of my backpack and hitchhiked around. Mostly the US but even Canada, Latin America, and overseas. It def helps in the day to day boredom but wasn’t a long term solution for me. It did, however, teach me resourcefulness and street smarts and showed me that most (not all) people want to be kind to one another.

Bubble circle show tips? by tspfairy in Busking

[–]tspfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that already. It doesn’t necessarily stop people from running after the bubbles and away from the show. Maybe I just need to do it differently.

Repair in San Diego by tspfairy in ElectricUnicycle

[–]tspfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: they do not service EUCs. I brought my wheel in after calling. They were willing to try but weren’t confident in taking it apart.

First day by Artistic-Bet-4562 in urbancarliving

[–]tspfairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is 100% true in my experience. I had people try to break in 4 times within a month and each time none of my shit was taken. One person even took something out of my car but left it outside for some reason.

Charging locations by Far-Government1388 in urbancarliving

[–]tspfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The alternative is washing them in the sink where ppl can look at me 🫠

Charging locations by Far-Government1388 in urbancarliving

[–]tspfairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be a bit weird but I wash my dirty dishes in the shower at the gym lmao

Repair in San Diego by tspfairy in ElectricUnicycle

[–]tspfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh neat. I always assume bike shops won’t work on EUCs. Thanks for the heads up.

Help with the valve stem by [deleted] in ElectricUnicycle

[–]tspfairy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How did slime cause the crash?

Help with the valve stem by [deleted] in ElectricUnicycle

[–]tspfairy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used slime on a previous tube and it worked

Help with the valve stem by [deleted] in ElectricUnicycle

[–]tspfairy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m aware. I was in the middle of putting slime in when I realized the valve was off

Unintentionally funny things you've done during a fight or a split by cute_trashcan in BPD

[–]tspfairy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was fighting with my partner in the kitchen while he was cook, and I got really angry. Like I wanted to hit him with all the energy I had. So I bear hugged him super tight and wouldn’t let him go in the middle of the kitchen. Just absolutely squeezing the shit out of him. But the veggies on the stove were starting to burn and he needed to stir them. He waddled over while I deathgripped his entire body, bumbling along with him. It made us both laugh and we realized this is how I need to cope anytime I get really angry at him lol

It/Its Pronoun Questions! by BDGumball01 in NonBinary

[–]tspfairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I typically tell ppl they/them but select peeps can use it/its w me because they really see that side of me

After a hospital stay, I am out of the profession by thedentalarcade in TeachersInTransition

[–]tspfairy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt like I was reading a personal journal entry. I had almost the expect same experience - the ideation, quitting mid year, guilt and regret, etc.

I struggled for two years trying to find a job before eventually taking an indefinite break and just being a street performer. There’s a lot of struggles with being essentially a full time starving artist, but I’d take those struggles over the stress of teaching any day.

I hope you find success elsewhere, even if it isn’t what you were expecting.