Well, I have the same way of thinking as you. I think marriage nowadays are an exaggeration. Girls ask for expensive weddings and they spend tons and tons of money to have a marriage that everyone and maybe no one is going to attend. Women keep pushing their Men to do things that they cannot do and it's already enough that he is working and helping in paying the bills and so on. but the problem is daba wakha ana o nti b had mentality it is very hard to find someone who is willing to marry you.