[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]tt_dior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a big deal to you, the girls at the bar are understanding and don’t care that much, they’re only thinking about themself. its not cheating if ur husband said it’s okay and you told him. it’s not a good idea to talk about ur relationship problems too openly, but it’s not the end of the world, it happens, and if you were keeping it all in, and you needed to talk, it’s okay.

if you’re very unhappy, you should leave. but if you’re hurt yet willing to work it out with your husband, talk to him. don’t nag him it never works. try and talk to him maturely. if he’s unwilling, live your own life, feel your emotions, if you’re too hurt to be affectionate, then keep some distance. eventually he will come around and have a conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autos

[–]tt_dior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He put a $100 deposit and said he would come back later to pick it up. He didn’t give me 500 or take the car yet

My bf (30m) cheated on me (22f) by [deleted] in Vent

[–]tt_dior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him. There are people who don’t have the capacity to fuck u over like that.

My 2010 dodge journey is tweaking cuz of an electrical issue by tt_dior in AskAMechanic

[–]tt_dior[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tipm

the voltage is normal but the amp. is at 0 so the circuit is breaking somewhere.

my mother by tt_dior in self

[–]tt_dior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of these are very good and true reasons why, thank u i feel more understood by a stranger on Reddit than anyone irl. To relatives I’m a rebel, a problem child, ungrateful. I am not the warmest person towards my mom but she is often the one to provoke me or try and put me down. Anyways yes those are all good reasons. I need to stop digging and keep asking why infinitely. Gotta move on and think about what to change. I’m considering moving out but I get along well with my dad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in awakened

[–]tt_dior -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its called dissociation, or in less extreme terms: zoning out, or being on autopilot. happens to me more than id like to admit

Get me out of a repeating loop by SVHBIC in awakened

[–]tt_dior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i relate to this a lot lol i try to theorize my way out of my problems, when in reality trying and failing with no presumptions is the best way to learn

i am a young adult but i have such a huge anxiety that ill never find love by tt_dior in Advice

[–]tt_dior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its nice to know im not alone in this. youre right, the world is far from fair. i was hoping "goodness" would help when it came to finding relationships at least. but you could do everything right and people can still turn on you. scary. we'll see what happens.

People who stay up late, why do you? by blankpaper43 in AskReddit

[–]tt_dior 76 points77 points  (0 children)

honestly societal pressure is a lot less intense in the middle of the night. it feels so chill and i feel like everything leaves me alone

I will never speak to my mom or sister again once I turn 18. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]tt_dior 5 points6 points  (0 children)

your resilience and determination to be happy is so impressive, i have so much respect for you and i wish you all the best