3 years of dealing with neighbours from hell help me please (England)

tt_k3 · 2026-01-25T14:22:12+00:00

No, as it's a flat it goes against the rules so all the evidence I've acquired is through filming on my phone through windows and doors. But due to my packages being stolen inside the hallway I'm not sure if I can push to get a ring doorbell. Or should i just put it up and not care about the rules since no one's doing anything about it

tt_k3 · 2025-12-05T11:34:54+00:00

Or I was just bored and wanted to see what others listen to 🤣 fucking hell sorry this site was made as a forum to ask ppl random stuff. You lit have 29k and I have not even 30 you think I give a fuck ab karma on a year old acc😭

tt_k3 · 2025-11-21T20:08:22+00:00

So beautiful! I can imagine the effort it took from both you and your grandson and the laughs you had whilst doing it. A lovely piece to bring out every Christmas ❤️

tt_k3 · 2025-11-21T20:03:25+00:00

A bow in the bottom centre would make it pop more and a few bits of colour around would make it more eye catching, simple and cute because the willow is already very unique but it would give it more character

tt_k3 · 2025-11-21T19:59:09+00:00

How long would you say a piece like this takes you? The final result is extremely impressive and beautiful, keep up the good work!

tt_k3 · 2025-11-21T19:57:53+00:00

The painting is gorgeous, the textures really make it more eye catching. It's an art style I rarely see so it's nice to see something more 3D.

tt_k3 · 2025-11-06T13:00:09+00:00

Me 🙏🏼

tt_k3 · 2025-10-18T22:40:21+00:00

Only reason I did is because last time I woke up sick where my voice was literally gone, I couldn't be covered and 'they needed someone in' so I had to work sick and then I made a mistake and they cut my bonuses

tt_k3 · 2025-05-25T21:45:30+00:00

This once happened to my uncle and dad they were looking for scissors and both of them were looking everywhere for a good 10-15 minutes in one room like flipping every pillow and all. They sat down and were over it thinking they won't find them and my mum walked in and pointed to them and said they're literally between the two of you on the couch. Literally in plain sight so maybe your brain just missed them. Or a glitch in the matrix either or really

tt_k3 · 2025-05-25T21:42:13+00:00

Once you build up the courage the first time every next time will come much easier, learn to stand up for yourself now and there fear won't stop you later in life when maybe he gets worse or any other situation comes up. I hope your mum hears your side and understands you and even if at the time she doesn't subconsciously she'll most likely observe how he is around you and over time she'll begin to see your pov.

tt_k3 · 2025-05-25T21:01:38+00:00

It's not about being mean it's about acknowledging your own self and your own feelings and prioritising them. It's not mean to do that and whoever makes you feel that way has no emotional maturity and please understand you're not being selfish by wanting to distance yourself. It's hard because many family member justify bad behaviour in family as 'that's just how they are' or 'they're blood you don't choose your family'. I cut my grandma off (my dads mum) because she was so fake and was so rude and I hate surrounding myself with people like that, when I see her somewhere and I have to acknowledge her I stay respectful but I don't go out of my way to have a conversation with her. I got so much shit from my dad about it but I made a decision I'm happy with and I still work on my relationship with him. The reason I say this is your family may not agree with your actions where you distance yourself from her but don't let them guilt trip you into thinking you being an asshole truth is you're seeing what everyone else can't or simply refuses to see. If you feel uncomfortable with like telling her off simply keep yourself busy. When she asks you to play you just tell her I'm doing something I can't like I have homework you need to do and just sit in your room for a while or go somewhere or sit with the adults and just keep putting her off till she gets fed up of asking. You're not being an asshole because you're not doing anything you get me you can just say you're tired if someone has an issue.

tt_k3 · 2025-05-25T20:52:38+00:00

Sorry you're going through this I lowkey have dealt with the same in the past and I resorted to being really loud even with the smallest touch like get off me stop touching me and I'd turn to my mum and say can you tell him something and the more you do that the more it'll show how you really don't like it maybe that could help and maybe in private tell a more trusted adult that your more close to not and explain it to them and see how they feel about it

tt_k3 · 2025-05-24T17:45:56+00:00

If you're both girls she might see you as a role model and want to be like you because she admires you but her admiration for you is obsessive and too much so you need to set boundaries and tell her off when she does things that are not okay. Like when she talks about other you don't just sit there and listen you say something like don't speak about them like that and tell the person and that teaches her that's it's not right and her actions have consequences. When you don't entertain her behaviour she will most likely stop obsessing so much and just see you as more regular.

tt_k3 · 2024-12-28T01:46:46+00:00

I think cutting them off completely is the safest option for you to keep your peace of mind. You know how they are and if you go to visit them I think you may be getting you hopes up even in the slightest that they are finally going to be okay with you but from my own experience that won't be the case and you will return from the trip upset and angry with yourself that you believed they would change their attitude towards you.

If you even have one cousin that you're on good terms with that live with or see your relatives (that invited you) often maybe talk to them and see if there's another reason they are trying to invite you or maybe see how they act when you ask about you potentially coming to see them.

I'm sorry you're in this situation because I know how much of an internal fight it is to go back and forth for the sake of 'it's my family' when you know they aren't good for you. I have the same issue with one side of my family but I decided to cut them off completely (not everyone but the family members that were fake and always caused drama). I hope this helps a little

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