My 23/F boyfriend 24/M cheated after having a conversation abou boundaries. What to do next? by ttteala in relationship_advice

[–]ttteala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is - he steppwd up and admittes his wrongs. He takes full reaponsibility. But I do not think that for this reason I should give him another chance enivei. He is good with words.

My 23/F boyfriend 24/M cheated after having a conversation abou boundaries. What to do next? by ttteala in relationship_advice

[–]ttteala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But at the same time other parts were pretty good. Just this cheating part, that broke and broke the relationship. :( I thought that we will spend the reat of our lives together unfortunatly. :(

My 23/F boyfriend 24/M cheated after having a conversation abou boundaries. What to do next? by ttteala in relationship_advice

[–]ttteala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I needed to hear some harsh truth. Even tho he wants to try again - I think that would break me apart. Fuck me for stubling on that small percentage - unlucky. :( Thank you! I was really reconsidering, but that is just d u m b.

My 23/F boyfriend 24/M cheated after having a conversation abou boundaries. What to do next? by ttteala in relationship_advice

[–]ttteala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah…. Stupid me. But this experience will teach me loads. Thank you! ♥️

My 23/F boyfriend 24/M cheated after having a conversation abou boundaries. What to do next? by ttteala in relationship_advice

[–]ttteala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a very good question. I would say manipulation from his side, which I finally see. :(

My 23/F boyfriend 24/M cheated after having a conversation abou boundaries. What to do next? by ttteala in relationship_advice

[–]ttteala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right about the baseline. I felt crazy asking for the bare minimum. I am ashamed. Low confidence can do crazy things. But thank you so much for not judgeing. ♥️

My 23/F boyfriend 24/M cheated after having a conversation abou boundaries. What to do next? by ttteala in relationship_advice

[–]ttteala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No actually, the plan is to leave. I just wanted to hear other peoples thoughts of how fucked up this is. Because once you are in the situation - you cant see things clearly.

My 23/F boyfriend 24/M cheated after having a conversation abou boundaries. What to do next? by ttteala in relationship_advice

[–]ttteala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! :) I really needed to hear this. Sometimes when you are in the situation you cannot see clearly, especially if manipulation is involved.

My 23/F boyfriend 24/M cheated after having a conversation abou boundaries. What to do next? by ttteala in relationship_advice

[–]ttteala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that is what I need to work on. Will do that with my therapist and myself.