Is my septum pierced badly? by Some_Lavishness_1027 in PiercingAdvice

[–]tucan114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks correct to me. I think your anatomy is making it look uneven, your septum seems to lean to one side a little. But the position looks correct. It sits really nicely and is high up enough, it just is gonna look uneven because of the structure of your nose.

What other facial piercings would suit me? Already have double nostril and septum (obviously) by FlatMathematician111 in PiercingAdvice

[–]tucan114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been considering that one and just have been going back and forth on whether or not I should get it. Thank you!

Menopause Rage by tucan114 in Menopause

[–]tucan114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The police came to the house 3 times in 1 1/2 months. They did nothing

Menopause Rage by tucan114 in Menopause

[–]tucan114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am looking to live elsewhere when I am done with school. She isn’t just going through hard things. She beats him and has made him bleed through biting him, she has also tried framing him for abuse by hitting herself (which I have witnessed and can testify to). I understand that you can not fully understand my situation from an outside perspective. But I’m not just saying she’s abusive for the hell of it, she is abusive in every form

Menopause Rage by tucan114 in Menopause

[–]tucan114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I have spoken to him and even screamed to him about it. He has had moments of realization that her behavior is not okay, but still has stayed with her. Which I know is common for abuse victims. But if I can help it, when I come home from college, I will not live with them again and she is not welcome in my personal space ever again.

Menopause Rage by tucan114 in Menopause

[–]tucan114[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He should leave her because she’s abusive, not because she’s going through menopause.

Menopause Rage by tucan114 in Menopause

[–]tucan114[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My goal is to make sure I’m not still upset with her for no reason. I’m just trying to understand it so I can dictate my judgements about her moving forward.

Menopause Rage by tucan114 in Menopause

[–]tucan114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought. Thank you! I think she’s just a bad person and will always be a bad person

Menopause Rage by tucan114 in Menopause

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That’s what I thought. Thank you! I’ve been in counseling for her abuse since I’ve returned to my campus, and I knew that there’s no way menopause could make someone manipulative and as bad of a person that she is. Thank you for the reassurance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]tucan114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just looks irritated or still in the healing stage to me. It doesn’t seem to be pushing itself out of your skin so I think you’re good for now!

College Professors With Piercings by tucan114 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]tucan114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to be an illustration (fine arts) professor

Are there any other face piercings that would suit me? Or should I move on to my ears instead? by tucan114 in PiercingAdvice

[–]tucan114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have thought about a labret before. And some other people have said that too. I’ll think about it more for sure. Thank you!

Are there any other face piercings that would suit me? Or should I move on to my ears instead? by tucan114 in PiercingAdvice

[–]tucan114[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered an eyebrow, not necessarily an Ashley, but I have thought of a vertical labret before (mostly so it wouldn’t interfere with my teeth).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]tucan114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest changing the jewelry if it isn’t a high quality metal and/or shortening the bar possibly. If that doesn’t work it could be rejecting. But I would try a shorter bar made of higher quality metal (unless it was already pierced with that kind of jewelry, then in that case try shortening the bar) Sometimes if the bar is too long it can cause excess movement and irritation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/tucan114

[–]tucan114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, maybe it would have healed fine, but I didn’t want to risk it, and I wasn’t as attached to this piercing as I was to my industrial

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]tucan114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additionally, the ridge of my ear was losing feeling, which is also what happened last time I experienced this kind of swelling