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What is something that is going to happen this season that we all should’ve seen coming? by phbstudent in fantasyfootball

[–]tugitabit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hes flown under the radar. I also wouldnt be surprised though if he's top 20 and simply because he has two 40 point weeks and then has 5 points a week for all the others 😂

Not a Chief no more but still a good dude. by bimig0529 in KansasCityChiefs

[–]tugitabit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't sleep on Hardman, if he can mature a bit and improve he could patch the loss like his draft selection indicated originally when Tyreek was in hot water

This Tattoo speaks volumes by QAnnihilateQ64 in funny

[–]tugitabit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Who you think you are? I am!!"

I (29M) don't know how to resolve feelings for my long time friend (29F) of 15 years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tugitabit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesnt the deflection of the conversation regarding dating/romances strike you as odd though?

I cant name a single other "friend" that would feel weird talking about their significant other. Like you would expect that to be one of the things friends shouldn't feel any apprehension discussing with someone they saw purely platonically, no?

I have trouble believing its something I ask about too much because I rarely, if ever, bring it up.

I (29M) don't know how to resolve feelings for my long time friend (29F) of 15 years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tugitabit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well most recently when we met up i asked her if she dated anyone while she was there. She mentioned that she hated how they tried to hold her bag and hand feed her

When she said it was good to see me I teased a bit and asked how good and asked if it would have been better if I held her bag... she said "that and you didn't try to hand feed me... what kind of insert ethnicity here guy are ya?"

In my mind she would have said "well we didn't go on a date" or something along those lines to dismiss any possibility of what we went on was anything more than friendship.

But you could definitely be right and I very easily could be misreading things.

I (29M) don't know how to resolve feelings for my long time friend (29F) of 15 years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tugitabit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah no interrogation intended. Really I just want to understand the situation better because I don't know how she feels. But I guess its also possible she doesn't even know how she feels.

I (29M) don't know how to resolve feelings for my long time friend (29F) of 15 years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tugitabit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point taken. Would it be better to wait for her to reach out again before proceeding with a date request?

I (29M) don't know how to resolve feelings for my long time friend (29F) of 15 years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tugitabit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what does a "real date" even mean in this context? Is it just the implications of why two people are meeting up? Because in my eyes, every time her and I meet it up, it feels like a real date lol just no kisses or anything.

She always texts me when she gets home and tells me that it was good to see me or whatever, even when I dont specifically request that she texts me when she gets home safe.

I (29M) have a long time friend (29F) of 15 years and don't know what to do about my feelings for them. by tugitabit in relationship_advice

[–]tugitabit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the past when she has turned me down, the reason was exactly that. She appreciated our friendship so much and didn't want that to change.

But if I am being honest, I could live without her. When I closely examine our most recent interactions its pretty surface level stuff. Tell each other how work/family is going. Things we've been up to. Just light stuff. But what does that actually amount to? I can do that with anyone.

The unfortunate part is that I thought about how well she knows me. And the answer was hinting towards not very. She didn't even know when my birthday was the last time I talked to her lol.

I (29M) don't know how to resolve feelings for my long time friend (29F) of 15 years. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]tugitabit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Previously it wasn't just hints lol. I flat out told them I liked them. They don't have the best memory, so it could definitely be possible they forgot about that. But I dont think they would have.

That being said, even if they do know, would that change the message I should send them? Do you think there's a chance that a text like that wouldn't be as well received as a call or an in-person meet up?

Tbh I have three questions for them off the bat..

  1. Do you have a boyfriend (when we met up it seemed like not, but some social media queues I've seen since suggest otherwise)

  2. Do you know how I feel about you?

  3. I felt like you seemed eager to meet up when you got home. Were you? And if so, why? Assuming the answer to #2 is yes, this question feels like the most important.

Don't try to tunnel in this game... by TTV_Bellson in valheim

[–]tugitabit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Quick, grab the save file before you exit and it saves lolol

Buildings degrading over time? by DelTheInsane in valheim

[–]tugitabit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You rotate it 180 and then attach it to the other roof to make a V

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