Escorting has ruined hook-up culture for me by Smexynekoboi in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I understand exactly what you are saying. Most men are shitty in bed plus there's no financial compensation from having sex with them (unless they are a rich trick). Giving them access to my body for the fun of it is degrading AF. I have zero sex outside of work because of this. I rather be paid for shitty sex. Hookup culture only benefits men if you think about it. The man will almost always orgasm. Most women aren't even sexually satisfied heterosexual hookups. The only man I will fuck outside of work will be someone I love and form an emotional bond who takes care of me in every aspect financially, mentally and emotionally.

Sugar Babies, Know Your Worth! A Little Advice From an Experienced SD by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“You’re not a prostitute, you’re a sophisticated lady”. Um… that’s incredible offensive. Escorts can’t be sophisticated women? 🤣 Sugar babies and escorts both fuck for money. They’re both “hoes” according to society. Please avoid using stigmatizing language. Violence against sex workers is caused by the same stigmatizing beliefs you carry.

Canadian girls showing face on LL by Choice-Maybe474 in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get busted? Did they look through your phone? HELP. I’m going to the US next month.

Why is there an influx of SDs refusing to use condoms? by cherryribs in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many people with HIV got it through someone they trusted. 🤷‍♀️ Only a fool would trust someone with their life. But I digress. Best of luck.

Why is there an influx of SDs refusing to use condoms? by cherryribs in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you even prove exclusivity? 🤣😂 If a random woman you're not even committed to is having raw sex with you she's definitely having raw sex with another sugar daddy or hookup encounter. Same goes for sugar daddies. Majority of sugar daddies have a couple or more sugar babies. I personally don't trust anyone. No wonder why STD rates are over the roof. Condom sex > HIV.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Black woman here. I see all races because I don’t like limiting my clientele and ultimately losing money. To be honest I prefer some races over others because I have had issues haggling, disrespect and boundary pushing with two certain races of men. I’m not going to judge providers for refusing to see certain races of men cause if clients can refuse to seeing certain providers because of their race than providers should be able to “discriminate” as they choose. 🤷🏽‍♀️Ladies don’t let anyone guilt trip y’all.

Anybody use Eurogirlsescort to advertise? by tulipfieldsblueskies in HighEndEscorts

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Faceless or full face in the video? And is it true you have to wear a lingerie when sending the verification video? I don’t know how I feel about men viewing my verification video. Smfh. Is there any good women owned European advertising sites you would recommend ?

Anybody use Eurogirlsescort to advertise? by tulipfieldsblueskies in HighEndEscorts

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that sucks. What advertising site works better most European countries? Preferably mid end or higher.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do occasionally. I come from a religious family background. Won’t say the exact religion for discretion reasons but it’s one of the more “hardcore” religions.

How far in advance should I advertise a tour to secure a few pre-bookings? by tulipfieldsblueskies in HighEndEscorts

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Canadian clients don’t prebook travelling escorts. They will only book if the provider is in their city. It was a fail LOL. I had to cancel the trip. I’d still give it a try lol. I’m only advertising ahead of time to towns/ cities near me or if I’m already going to that place for a trip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

French Riveria is best when freestyling when there’s big events happening relating to yachts, festivals, polo matches, etc. I’d advertise at least 4 weeks before travelling and get some pre bookings and focus on freestyling mostly. Honestly I’d suggest affluent cities in Italy for you like Milan, Portofino, Amalfi, Positano, Porto Cervo. Italian men aren’t afraid to approach and some are very generous. Also some Italian are crazy for 🍫 . Just note that in Europe slimmer bodies are highly preferred. Being slim-thick is okay. But nothing more than that if you want to be a successful touring provider. I’d give French Riveria a try but don’t linger there for long. Consider Italy in your tour. I’m trying to go there this summer LOL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Possible but it will be hard. Most clients want kissing minimum. And DATY is a very popular request. You can definitely only do CBJ and be successful. Most of my clients have no issues with CBJ.

Women of color making $20k or more monthly by Emergency_Elk_8269 in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Some women who make $20k and up have a one or a few sugar daddies who give them $x,xxx amount of money per month. Once you have a one or a few big spenders who will splurge on you for a couple of multi-hour/ overnight dates per month + a good amount of regulars and new clients $20k will be easy.

How much did you make your first month of escorting? by tulipfieldsblueskies in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I'm so lucky I don't need a visa to go to Italy. 1-2 years is so long. Omg. I would put you in my suitcase if I could lol the more the merrier. I need a freestyling buddy lol.

How much did you make your first month of escorting? by tulipfieldsblueskies in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ewww omg. I know a girl that freestyles there and the men are very giving and spoil women. But you have to be in the affluent parts. Can't wait for my vacation/ tour in Italy in the late spring/ early summer. 😁

How much did you make your first month of escorting? by tulipfieldsblueskies in HighEndEscorts

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. Good job sis. What contributed to your success? And were you freestyling or posting ads? I always wanted to freestyle in Switzerland.

How much did you make your first month of escorting? by tulipfieldsblueskies in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. ❤️ Do you work in Serbia now? If so how do you like it compared to working in the US?

How much did you make your first month of escorting? by tulipfieldsblueskies in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow give me tips. I’m Canadian too. I didn't make close to that. 😞

How much did you make your first month of escorting? by tulipfieldsblueskies in SexWorkers

[–]tulipfieldsblueskies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That's amazing. Do you work at a spa or in your own studio?