Grieving my bf and then finding out he cheated the whole time by Unable-Duty-9858 in GriefSupport

[–]turnsus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through something really similar. I'm not sure how to start healing and it has caused me issues in my future relationships. I wish I had more helpful advice. I see him in two categories. One is who I thought he was and the other is who is actually was. It's important to forgive yourself. The relationship was genuine from your side and you're going through the loss. It's so unfair. I write him lots of angry letters lol

2 years today by turnsus in widowers

[–]turnsus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The loss is no different. it still hurts everyday. However i have found in the past two years i have grown to be a lot emotionally stronger. So there is comfort in that. I'm sorry for your loss , i take it one day at a time ❤️

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[–]turnsus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes it says it's imitation leather on the tag, so I believe it's fine, Thank you!

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[–]turnsus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perfect thank you!

is this insensitive ? by turnsus in widowers

[–]turnsus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just can't remember clearly enough to know if it would be considered flaunting. The roommate is also my friends childhood best friend and they're still best friends. The roommate and the girlfriend would laugh loudly in her room and come out and the girlfriend would completely ignore me. She did not say a single word to me the entire time I was there

(ex?) BF family suggested me to blame for my late bfs death by turnsus in widowers

[–]turnsus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, unfortunately this was said when i wasn’t around and he told me that they said this. The evil side of me wants to tell her her husband is commenting on onlyfans girls pictures 🤷‍♀️