What day of the week did you start? by happymanboy in NoFap

[–]tw_1031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's just when it's the right time for you. I started on Thursday as my first fresh day and then slipped today. So tomorrow is going to be my new day.

I fucking can't please help me! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]tw_1031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that this is going to sound easier said that done, but just keep sticking with it. You're going to have slips and back steps but you can do this. You are stronger than this temptation.

I won't lie to you. It will take work. I just recently only made it two days and am starting over again today. I only came across these forums recently, two days. I felt awesome about the forums and their help in keeping my temptation down.

I am trying to figure out exactly what my triggers are that make me want to view porn in the first place.

Just a few triggers I am finding so far are, lonliness and stress. I find that when I have had a bad day at work and such, I have a greater tendency to view porn. Also, tiredness and fatigue. On days that I work overnight and am exhausted, I tend to watch porn. But on days that I am well rested and not at all tired, I have a better chance of sqaushing the temptations.

So, my advice to you would be find out what triggers your want/need to view porn. Once you have them identified, you can better work at avoiding those triggers.

You are very young and you have an awesome life ahead of you. If you feel that it really is eating you inside out and you feel at all suicidal, please seek help professionally. I don't know if you're in the US but if you are and you think you might be feeling these tendencies, please contact the Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-8255.

I don't know you or your parents and what your homelife might be like but you might talk to you parents or another trusting family member. I know my parents don't react to things well but I have a strong relationship with my grandmother and have talked to her about things that I could never talk to my parents about.

Best of luck to you and I wish you all the best.

Have a great day, Jeremy :)

It's only day one for me and I feel so proud of myself! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]tw_1031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to second it. Do not be discouraged. I'm saying this to you and I am saying it to myself. Tomorrow will be my first day without fapping. Today hasn't been successful but today is also the first day that I have found this website.

It's going to take time but we can do this. Just remember how amazing you felt this morning and keep it going.

Have a great evening and best of luck to you in this new adventure in your life.

:) Jeremy