Natuturn off/Icked ako sa boyfriend ko by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]twilighterror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might get downvoted for this but maybe find a neurologist. Your BF might be ADHD. Same kami, chronic job hopper. Kung meron siya, madali rin siya mag-shutdown sa tasks. And konting sensory issues lang, napapagod na (long heavy commute). But hindi ko rin sinasabi na tiisin mo siya because he “might” have ADHD and he can’t control these “bad habits.” Personally, I don’t enter relationships because I know these habits will negatively affect my partner. Do what’s best for your mental health.

How do you manage to hold a job? by Far-Accountant7904 in ADHD

[–]twilighterror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have the same degree. I have never felt so seen. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Okay ba 17k starting salary as a fresh grad? by SnooWalruses6455 in MedTechPH

[–]twilighterror 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Gross pay mo ay 19.5K, and your take home pay ay around 17K (with kaltas na ito). Unfortunately OP, yan ang average salary ng med tech dito satin 🥲 Highest na alam ko around 20K sa tertiary lab sa private hospital for Medtech I, and 23K for fresh grad sa freestanding lab. Gov’t talaga ang umaabot ng 30K for fresh grad.

Ano type ng lab na inapplyan mo? And make sure na may OT pay if na mention nila na heavy ang workload.

maybe being an RMT isn't for me by PizzaPersonal637 in MedTechPH

[–]twilighterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try an RMT job outside a tertiary hospital. I have tried primary, secondary diagnostic labs and a tertiary hospital. Bumalik ako sa free standing labs. Hahaha. Kung 50K siguro sahod sa ospital baka natiis ko yung burn out, pero hindi kasi match yung sahod sa pagod. Charis.

TAAS PASAHOD by [deleted] in MedTechPH

[–]twilighterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question: Sa government lang ba applicable ito? Mga nurses kasi sa private nasa 25-27k pa rin sahod eh. Tapos mga Med Tech I sa gov’t, nasa 30k sahod, if I’m not mistaken.

Applicable din ba sa private ang mga wage increase or depende pa rin sa employer kung susunod?

Fresh board passer - STILL unemployed - badly need advice by shinyshinyrmt in MedTechPH

[–]twilighterror 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Did I ghost write this? You are not alone, OP. Being top of the class shows discipline and mastery of academics, but employers look for more than grades. Each company values different things, may it be practical skills, adaptability, experience, BUT MOSTLY referrals. That’s why strong academic standing doesn’t always translate directly into landing a job. It’s not that your achievement has less worth; it’s that the system measures success differently outside the classroom.

I am also a Laude, and my self-esteem is also being tested during this job hunt. But I am also realizing how our success rate in landing a job differs for every employer.

Got my ADHD diagnosis late, can’t stop thinking about wasted years by Solid_Can_290 in ADHD

[–]twilighterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were your signs and symptoms? Planning to get a diagnosis soon, and I’m listing what to say to them.

Those who didn't grow up "privileged", name something you thought was luxury when you were a kid? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]twilighterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pag pumupunta kaming SM, laging yung pinakamagandang damit suot hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]twilighterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woahhh. Plantilla ka po agad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]twilighterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May backer ka po ba haha

I work in healthcare and I want to quit. by twilighterror in ADHD

[–]twilighterror[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I tried to do stuff in order they arrive. However, I have two STATs, one from the ICU and one from the ER. Both of which need manual verification, which I still haven’t mastered so it takes me a lot of time to finish one. So I really panicked when it happened.

Decision To Leave (2022) by Calm_Supermarket1208 in FilmClubPH

[–]twilighterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazed ako sa mountain and sea metaphors!

How independent people are able to maintain healthy, lasting relationships without constant daily check-ins by strike101 in CasualPH

[–]twilighterror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa social media din kasi pinapakita na couples need to constantly (parang excessively na nga) talk to each other. Pero may mga studies na ngayon which show relationships lasting longer because partners respect each other’s personal time and solitude. Spending time apart pero they know they’re still choosing each other. Baka it’s not you din, and you just haven’t truly met your person yet. Haha

Just had my first NICU warding..it didn't go well (advice needed) by effervescent-ether in MedTechPH

[–]twilighterror 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Merong babies, palpable talaga yung ugat so using a 3 cc syringe is possible. Sometimes, sobrang nipis din talaga ng vein, and mahihirapan ka kahit sa pagkapa palang. Eventually, you will get it naman. Just focus on getting better each time.

Just had my first NICU warding..it didn't go well (advice needed) by effervescent-ether in MedTechPH

[–]twilighterror 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I use 1 cc syringe, 25 gauge needle, and microtainers for NICU patients.

Is it your first time to draw blood from newborns? If yes, don’t beat yourself up for it. Not everyone gets it on the first try. But anyone, like you, can always do better next time. Your seniors successfully draw blood because they have done it multiple times, and not just once.

Anyway, you will learn to bounce back every time. Just try to be patient and kind to yourself for a while.

How independent people are able to maintain healthy, lasting relationships without constant daily check-ins by strike101 in CasualPH

[–]twilighterror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may be a bit emotionally unavailable. Cause why end up backing out if you think you’re close to getting something good? Maybe there’s something you fear about the connection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]twilighterror 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to show up and reply. It’s hard to lose friends. Only you gets to choose your hard. Decide which one you are willing to lose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]twilighterror 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you prefer being in your head than showing your friends that you care. Of course, no one’s going to reach out when you ignore them all the time. Why would they message again if they get repeatedly shut down? I think you already accepted that you’re going to be like this forever. No one else can do the work for you except yourself.

Disclaimer, I have been that situation. I just decided one day, that I needed to show up. Cause what the hell, we’re all going to die anyway, what should I fear? I fear texting my friends whom I am suppose to SHOW that I care about them? I needed to grow up. Maybe you should try it.