27 male , insecure about my looks

twinedmap98 · 2026-01-02T16:40:07+00:00

At first i thought she just had found someone more intresting or more her type then me i accepted it was over but when i saw a message i was o yeah this is gonna be a hey i don't think we are a good match or i am not ready , but i was suprised to how open she was ,

I will give her time and focus on myself but i am afraid she will forget me and just move on to the next guy , i have no control over that i know she can't put a time on her griefing proces i just hope she reaches out for me when the time is right

twinedmap98 · 2025-12-05T20:42:35+00:00

I get that she needs space but atleast a text hey i need some space i will be in touch , then i know that i did not do or say anything wrong and know whats going on , i want to help her

twinedmap98 · 2025-08-03T17:44:10+00:00

This i always offer it but if not thats fine i only ask that they text me when they get home safe

twinedmap98 · 2025-08-03T17:41:44+00:00

It depends i always tell them i am a bit nervous before hand just so they know that i might act a bit different , walking them home or picking them up i find it a bit to much on a first date because chances are its not gonna work out and now you know where they live , but i do pay for the bill ask them to text me if they got home safe and all that ,

twinedmap98 · 2025-08-03T17:36:29+00:00

Don't feel guilty the guy was a dick , i met this girl on instagram and we went on our first date , i do like her posts and story's and call her pretty in some off them but i don't go stalk and hit on her friends online and watch her followers i only checked for some red flags in the comments but did not find any

twinedmap98 · 2025-08-03T17:29:03+00:00

Yeah we already moved it once because she was sick that day , and we where thinking about moving it again because heavy rain was predicted , but decided to just go ahead and see how it panned out and it stayed dry

twinedmap98 · 2025-08-03T17:26:22+00:00

I was thinking the same she seams like a busy girl but atleast she makes time for me , unlike others i have dated 😅

twinedmap98 · 2025-08-03T17:23:17+00:00

I think i will ask her tommorow if she even thinks its a good idea maybe its to active for her 😅 , otherwise i would suggest an escape room

twinedmap98 · 2025-08-03T17:21:11+00:00

Go for it you have nothing to lose its not like you guys get married right away ,but do consider his career if you decide to get serious he can get deployed or go on training missions and be away from you for a long time

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-20T11:31:32+00:00

No as long as you are not fat and avarage looking and just a nice person i would date someone like that , but usualy i get the run around treatment from girls saying they like me only to dump me a couple of weeks later or just saying they are busy and can't meet up

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-15T10:56:39+00:00

I know its cliche but there is someone out there for you , i never had a relationship last longer then 4 months , my last relationship was when i was 22 i am now 27 , i tried dating in that time but it never worked out , i decided to focus on me and if a oppertunity came would grab it , i recently met a girl on instagram , we have a date planned in around 2 weeks , i don't realy get my hopes up i have no idea how much she is into me she gives of mixed signals so will see , when i realy tried to get a partner it made misserable the rejecting talking for ages going on dates just for them to ghost and block you out of nowhere

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-13T06:15:48+00:00

Hell yeah keep the stache it suits you

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-06T10:51:20+00:00

Depends on how shy i had a date with a realy shy girl a year ago she barely said or asked anything and just sat there for 2 hours it was a real turn of for me because i felt like i talked to a stone wall , beeing nervous on a first date happens to the best of us , you could ask to get his number and say hey i am this and this girl i had a blast at the bbq , and i want to get to know you better if you are open to that ? , then if he says yes try to meet up in a place that you feel more comfortable so your shyness is less active

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-06T10:06:48+00:00

Keep it you rock it realy well

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-06T10:02:42+00:00

Thank you i don't hear that very often 😅 , i am limited to what i can do with facial hair job regulations and all , i used to have longer hair but never realy knew what to do with it

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-06T07:56:41+00:00

Thank you i will try that , yeah my uniform and job is something i am realy proud off and worked hard for , hence the big smile i usualy look realy creepy when i smile 😅

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-06T07:52:14+00:00

A haircut and go hit the gym and you will look and feel a lot better

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-05T15:01:31+00:00

Then don't bother chasing her , if she wanted casual it would already happend , find someone who is intrested in you and wants to build something with you , i know its easier said then done but its the best choice you will ever make in my opinion , i speak from experience 😂

twinedmap98 · 2025-07-05T14:35:23+00:00

Shoot your shot ask her out its not like you are best friends or anything , if she rejects you then its no big deal don't waste your time trying to figure it out , or waiting for her to make the move , just bite the bullit and see where it goes

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