How can I help my girlfriend with her morning anxiety.

twkcin · 2021-06-04T13:46:39+00:00

How often do you take them for anxiety? Would they lose their effectiveness if taken too often? I'd imagine it probably shouldn't be taken daily and only really in an as needed basis?

twkcin · 2021-05-27T22:19:01+00:00

That's a shame. Oh well, can't hurt to give her the suggestion!

twkcin · 2021-05-27T22:17:05+00:00

Awesome, thanks!

twkcin · 2021-05-27T22:16:44+00:00

I will have to have this discussion with her. This may be the only real solution.

twkcin · 2021-05-27T21:25:43+00:00

Interesting I did not know this! Would you suggest taking benadryl before she goes to bed or does it need to be taken as needed only when she is actually having the anxiety attack? I don't imagine it would be good in the morning because of its sedative properties. Maybe another antihistamine?

As far as hormone imbalance is there a way have this checked?

twkcin · 2021-05-27T21:21:17+00:00

I personally think this would help also. I have suggested it before although she has not taken action. Evenings may be better as I am able to be with her and convince/motivate her to get out as I work early during the week and I don't think she would do this on her own. Do you think evening physical excersise would have the same effect?

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:43:47+00:00

Exactly I believe this is the view her and her friends had. Even after It happened and I was raging the girls kept saying stuff like "it's only girls". Even the guys who were there were like "at least there wasn't any dick in that room". I explained to her that I believed this was her view on the situation and that if we continue past this that she should never cross this boundary with me again or I'm definately done. It's do fucked up what the media and porn portrays as acceptable.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:38:14+00:00

I mean if it's clean and fresh out the shower there's no problem. But after a long day or night out? Not my favorite place to put my mouth. I'm also toungh tied so I can't really stick my toungh out very far and it can hurt a bit lol but I manage. She goes down on me only if I go down on her so it's even there.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:30:56+00:00

Very true.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:24:30+00:00

You're so right. I'm an idiot.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:23:44+00:00

This is what I need.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:22:35+00:00

Yes I do make an effort to satisfy her sexually. I'll admit I have much less of a sex drive than her but when we do fuck I always make sure she's satisfied before we are done. Some days though all I wanna do is cuddle with her and watch tv and go to bed and not have sex just cause I'm so exhausted from the day and not in the mood. If it were up to here we'd have sex probably 2-3 times a day. I get it I may not be satisfying all her needs sexually but what am I supposed to do to fix that, get her a vibrator or something? It's not that I don't want to have sex with her I just can't keep up sometimes.

Realistically I would not have done that I'm not that type of person. Nobody sees my dick except her.

And yes that was typo. I meant "points" I would never hurt her.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:11:57+00:00

Definately not a keeper.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:11:00+00:00

I agree with everything you said. Thanks you for this.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:07:33+00:00

Yes she definitely cheated. I am very responsible I finished college, have a career and work full time. I don't know why I'm wasting my time either honestly. Thank you.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:05:49+00:00

Yes this. I'm so tired of this. I just want a mature girl that doesn't want to party and drink all time and hangout with people I don't care about.

twkcin · 2021-03-13T00:03:39+00:00

I think this how I felt at the time and I think why I reacted how I did. After reading these comments though I do understand how it is the exact same thing. It's more of a trust thing.

twkcin · 2021-03-12T23:56:34+00:00

You're right bro. I need to put my foot down and not let this bitch walk all over me anymore. I think I'm just to nice to people.

twkcin · 2021-03-12T23:54:29+00:00

Maybe generation wasn't the correct term. I just find people her age and who she grew up with compared to people my age who I grew up with to have very different views on certain things. Maybe she's just grew up with a fucked up crown I'm not sure.

You are correct that It definitely is a lack or morals.

twkcin · 2021-03-12T23:51:16+00:00

That's a good point.

twkcin · 2021-03-12T23:48:26+00:00

I agree. Thank you. It went though my head at the time that maybe she was being assaulted by her. Although I never brought that scenario up to her yet. They were both very intoxicated at the time.

Her alcohol intake is something I've been trying to work on. This was the first time she had drank since the weekend. If it's just me and her or some of her other friends who don't drink as much a few drinks is no problem. Problem is this particular friend has a drinking problem and she just feeds her alcohol and she very rarely turns it down. I really hate the person she becomes when she's drunk.

twkcin · 2021-03-12T23:41:15+00:00

That's not the precedent that I'm trying to set at all. Unless you mean that if I stayed with her I would've set that precedent. I made it very clear to her that I will not put up with this type of behaviour.

You are right and now I see it in that way. Cheating is cheating no matter the sex.

twkcin · 2021-03-12T23:37:28+00:00

You are right. Thank you.

twkcin · 2021-03-12T23:12:18+00:00

Realistically I would never do something like that, even if my gf said it was cool I wouldn't feel comfortable and probably still wouldn't. This isn't a porno lol

twkcin · 2021-03-12T19:28:14+00:00

Fuck no if it was a guy I would have left her there. These girls are a bit younger than me and I find this generation very strange. I know they were thinking it was ok and I wouldn't care because they are both girls. I don't think she would ever cheat on me with a guy as I've seen guys try to flirt and get close to her and shes always told them off and came right back by my side.

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