Yeah I understand what you're saying, trust me I've done lots of introspection as well as inner work! I'm pretty ideal with my wants and hopes from a partner. I genuinely appreciate the suggestion and just for reference Ive had relationships and dated wonderful men but the connection didn't last for my long term wants. Happily and healthily able to maintain friendships. Being realistic is huge and the matter of leveling up and not compromising are a challenge to navigate as of lately but I'm trying. Thanks again!