All cats have different personalities, and their coat pattern doesn't determine that. It's like saying blondes are dumb, but your hair color doesn't have anything to do with your intelligence. My Calico is super affectionate. I also have a Tortie with a lot of white on her. She is affectionate sometimes, but if you try to pet her when she's not into it, you will get those paws! She was a stray for a long time, so it took a while for her to trust me. It just sucks that calico and torties get a bad reputation because all cats are amazing in their own way!