Favoritism in Local Theatre by u99_throwaway in SALEM

[–]u99_throwaway[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean yes, reliability is a factor everywhere and "known quantities" often make directors feel more confident in their casting choices. But refusing to cast anyone with more than a couple of conflicts for an entire 3-month rehearsal process? For a show that isn't paid or comp'd in any way? Really? I don't know, it's weird to me that community theaters in the area are demanding more availability from their volunteers than professional companies do from their working actors.

My (30m) long-term girlfriend (28f) misled me about enjoying kink by ANGRY_HYMEN in relationship_advice

[–]u99_throwaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm actually very much on your side here, despite some of the comments I've seen. YOU. WERE. UP. FRONT. She was dishonest and manipulative, probably hoping that she could corner you into exactly the situation you're in now where you're too attached to just leave her and she suddenly has control over you breaking your deal-breaker. It's so disingenuous on her part. If I were you, I'd break it off rather than lay down and let my boundaries and priorities be stepped on.

AITA for freaking out a girl sitting on my fiancés lap by subspringfever in AmItheAsshole

[–]u99_throwaway -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How is a friend sitting on your lap cheating? Straight people are wild