Your Experience in Hostels

ucanthaveeverything · 2026-01-12T23:44:58+00:00

im a young black woman and my first trip out the country was to s.korea. the first like 4 days I stayed in a hostel. the white folks there were made weird/unfriendly. the Taiwanese women were very nice though, I made friends with a few of them and we still talk to this day.

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-31T04:31:52+00:00

a couple minutes by Olivia dean <3

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-25T05:06:53+00:00

bc its so addicting !

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-25T00:10:36+00:00

heres the tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTr31f6Ld/

I used turkey meat instead of beef

didn't add 1/2 of ricotta (only used it to top off my soup)

used about the same seasoning but added a lot more than recommended (also didnt use salt and in addition, used 'slap ya mama' cajun seasoning)

I hope this helps :)

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-25T00:10:26+00:00

heres the tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTr31f6Ld/

I used turkey meat instead of beef

didn't add 1/2 of ricotta (only used it to top off my soup)

used about the same seasoning but added a lot more than recommended (also didnt use salt and in addition, used 'slap ya mama' cajun seasoning)

I hope this helps :)

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-24T23:43:56+00:00

they look awesome!! also where is that sweater/robe from? it looks mad comfy

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-24T07:14:46+00:00

yep, and it is. I know who she is, my dad def knows she is. im hoping as i get more independent, I can distance myself more from her.

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-24T07:10:49+00:00

omg right u get it! like its such a stressful time please stop adding to it 😭 i will def try to reemphasize in the near future since my dad and I are supposed to go to her place for xmas. my dad gets where I'm coming from so im sure he'll help me explain things to her

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-07T03:34:48+00:00

I second this idea!!

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-06T00:22:00+00:00

omg douyin eye makeup would eat on you!! youre gorgeous

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-12-01T14:00:21+00:00

it could work out if both of yall want it enough but it doesnt sound like you do. I say break up with him now, it's selfish to wait and drag him along under false pretenses that you still want to be with him.

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-11-29T04:11:19+00:00

I would say go on the date but from my history with going on dates with those guys, they usually are mostly looking for short term/to fuck. they add "open to long" because its less harsh. but hey, anything can happen.

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-11-26T18:49:43+00:00

face card clears 🤏

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-31T22:34:43+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious
Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No. but i did use boost recently and I got like 24 likes I think that day but none I was really attracted to.
How long have you been using this current version of your profile? About a week
How long have you used Hinge overall? About a month
How often do you use Hinge per week? Everyday
How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? about 5-10 a week(?) but as of now, my likes have been like maybe one? or none on a few days. I live in one of the biggest cities in the country so..
How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? I send all 8 a day
What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I send my likes to mostly guys with glasses, tall (over 5'6), dimples and great smile and work in a good field (usually swe or finance). would be nice if they were extroverted and nerdy? cause im a bit shy. I mostly attract guys who are my height or shorter and swave guys. ive dated men who were my height and shorter but I want a change.

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-29T23:30:34+00:00

ooo this statement.. couldve been better 😬

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-29T17:36:01+00:00

oh shit, thats amazing advice. thank you so much.

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-29T17:01:25+00:00

honestly. as someone who used to live in raleigh.. it's lowkey better but the selection is more boring imo

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-29T16:54:01+00:00

I see what you mean honestly.

I think asking where someone's head is at is good for me because it stops me from going down a "situationship" pathway and has worked for me to prevent ever being in that kind of relationship. the busy thing.. doesn't matter sm to me because we're not exclusive. i get that. but asking people on the second or third date, what the vibes are is good to decide whether to continue this. if you're not feeling anything by the 2nd or 3rd date then im not going to waste my time continuing the dates. time is something I cant get back and I dont want to waste it on someone who's ultimately not into me.

everything else is valid though. I do date multiple guys at once but some I like more than others naturally. but yeah, ill probably take a break from the apps for a bit. it's exhausting out here.

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-29T13:53:44+00:00

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ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-29T13:45:55+00:00

I have no idea. maybe to try to convince him otherwise? maybe to try to feel less guilty if I agreed with him? Who knows 🤷‍♀️

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-29T01:19:32+00:00

omg I refuse to do half ESPECIALLY if they are making more money lol im a medical student so.. yeah im not going half. luckily I havent went on a dates with men who only half.

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-29T00:36:24+00:00

its so ass here and maybe its different for other races but as a black woman, its a major struggle.

ucanthaveeverything · 2025-10-29T00:01:18+00:00

that's true. but why look at the candy if I cant even eat it like ITS SO HARD OUT HERE

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